The Erotic Highway

Re: Short answer - YES, it's entirely normal. EOM
SonnyS 5179 reads
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I wonder how often people fell into this predicament?

SonnyS6541 reads

is it normal if you are not able to erect to a female if you find them unattractive? I visited a provider who looked attractive on the outside but upon daty, the other aspects were not up to par and immediately I lost my erection. I tried getting it back up using all methods i Know but it just wouldn't come up and I am not sure if this was abnormal. Throughout the whole day I couldn't even get it back up anymore.

SonnyS5180 reads

I wonder how often people fell into this predicament?

I fell prey to false-advertising. Pics were extremely old.

Thank goodness this doesn't happen often. If all women only had one child because they can't get laid again after having a kid and showing evidence of having a kid, we would be extinct.

Her physical appearance was fine, but something about the DATY experience turned you off?

I would have to guess it was an odor problem unless you are saying that the appearance of her labia minor were somehow abhorent to you.

I can certainly see how a bad odor would be a mood killer, and she should be advised of this probem as it almost always indicates a medical problem (There was a thread on the GD board not long ago about this.)

On the other hand, if it is the appearance of her inner parts that upset you, I find that a bit odd.

Or is it something else entirely?

SonnyS4622 reads

well it wasn't an odor problem but i see several cuts for a c section and some obvious major surgical procedures done on her vagina.

I've seen several C section scars (or they could have been for appendextomies) but never damage to the vagina itself.  I have no problem with that myself, but to each, their own.

Actually, I don't normally look that closely at the vagina as my eyes are usually focused on her face or breasts.  It is my tongue that mostly comes in contact.

I wonder if this provider finds it a problem as far as attracting and keeping clients?

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If something got in the way of your excitement mentally then the equipment goes on strike.  The crane operator walks off the job.  The gas tank empties out.  The elevator stops before the penthouse.

You can't fake sexual excitement if you're the owner of a penis.  Women can fake it with fair success, men can't.

these are unreviewed. the lady is willing but i am not. however if i manage to meet the lady socially first success is 100%, so far.

i have significant research skills but i am sensitive to a number of things not covered in reviews. my list of 1st session turn offs consists of:

1) my sense that she is unwilling somehow. that is one huge turn off. if she needs to act like she wants to see me skills for that are needed.

2) i'm shy and need a little help getting over it. sometimes it doesn't work.

3) a few voices just kill mood.

4) odors and scents... not due to hygeine problems. also some fragrances contain ingredients that i am allergic to.

5) dogs as a surprise. i am allergic. if i take my meds i'll be OK but i need to prepare beforehand.

SonnyS5213 reads

if they go nowhere do you still continue the session or do you call it off

I don't give up easily and usually I can find a way to relate to practically anyone with sufficient good will.  It depends. One and a half to two hours may not be enough.

I can sometimes charm and overcome reluctance on a ladies part (I look like a retired military gone to seed somewhat). With a grating voice conversation won't work. If it gets to less than an hour left I may call it a day.

Drama and unflattering gossip about past or current favorites is a HUGE turn off.

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understand different strokes for different folks.

Then again if you were already partaking that is a bit of a conundrum. I would just try to be tactful and make something up...i forgot to feed my cat lol? Pay the donation and better luck next time.

PS- I hope you are doing your research with the reviews hon.

XO, Belle.

That would not be a first though. On the theory of booking time I tend to spend the time and the money entire. A few times were short and refunds were offered.....

I may need to rethink this a bit....

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