I'm curious if anyone experiences this? Been in the sugar game for about 4 years now. It's been great. Had some really great experiences and dated great SBs. Longest main SB has been just over 2 years long, with other side SBs in the mean time. After that 2year long main SB ended, I've been fortunate to date new SBs, but lately has been the same cycle.  

Just like the "market" for new, legit POT's seems to fluctuate in unpredictable cycles, so does our appetite for sugar arrangements. It's not unusual for our feelings about this world to flex from time to time.    

Sounds like a first world problem to me. I'd quit your bitchin! /s

Conversations?  Better sex?  Crazier sex?  More than dinner and a BJ?  Trips?

But I’ve asked myself why

One can simply make an observation, share an experience, or post a thought for the sake of a discussion. This is does not mean that I'm complaining. I'm perfectly happy being in the honey pot that I am in, and being able to enjoy the company of beautiful ladies. This is simply a post where one hobbyst shares an experience with fellow hobbyst. Nothing more. I mean that's one of the purpose of participating on an open forum. Sharing of experiences.

Yes, Phoenix has been really good to me. I've dabbled in the LA market before, but Phoenix is my favorite. Yes, LA has a lot of hot girls, and you can get some really 10s. However, in LA too much "porn star" wanna-be's or unrealistic GPS mindsets. Phoenix has just as much hot girls, but not as much of the problems of LA. Although, just like the housing market, it's slowly starting to feel more and more like LA. A girl recently asked for 1500 per date. I said good luck and met up with my brunette SB later that week for a great night out.

I feel the same way. My only long term of over 2 years is beyond one night dates. We did much more other things like going to Disneyland (I'm a kid at heart in an adult body. It's actually awesome because it means I'm a kid with adult money!). Something weird about getting morning head in a Disney resort while a Micky doll is "looking" back at me. Don't get me wrong, the morning head was great. I usually like to look at her head bouncing up/down as she pleases me, and then out of the corner of my there is the Micky plush doll I bought her the day beyond...looking right at me with that Micky smile...it's like humm...is he smiling because of the great head I'm getting or judging me because this is supposed to be a "family" establishment ahahahah. I told her about it afterwards, and she wanted a new Micky doll because that one has been "tainted" 😂😂😂. I got her a new one at Cali Adventures, and made sure that one is in a bag that night when we play! 😅

It's normal to get bored with too much of anything, as abundance can lead to apathy. In the animal kingdom, particularly with mammals, the male of the species has evolved to find as many new partners for breeding as possible. I believe the boredom is a built in mechanism to motivate us to move on and find new partners once the breeding with current conquests is complete. I hate to reduce this to Darwinian law, but it does seem to explain many things in our sexual behavior that seem illogical. To quote Harlan Ellison, "Love ain't nothing but sex misspelled."  

I don’t find I get bored as much as many of my SBs get bored.  Things they did in the beginning of our time BCD they won’t do anymore.  Then it’s time for me to move on.  However, I do have a SB in my rotation that I have been seeing for 8 1/2 years, so she’s the exception.  

Wow 8.5 years. That's a long time! Some marriages in real life don't last that hahaha.

Or, more likely, they just get a better financial offer.

I used to think that my main motivation for sugar dating was the variety it offered.  But observing my own behavior, I realize that ain't correct.  When I find a SB I really click with, I stay interested as long as she'll keep seeing me.  that has resulted in many long term arrangements of 2 years, 3 years, or longer.  Of course, during those long standing arrangements I have also had numerous short term things to satisfy my craving for variety.  But I love feel my mental and emotional connection to a young girl deepening over time, as much as I love the sexual connection.  Now that I've gotten old enough that I can't handle as many dates per month as previously, I have found myself sticking with my 2 wonderful young SBs and passing up on opportunities for short term hookups I might have gone for in the past.  I value the continuity of my current 2 arrangements so much that I don't want to rock the boat!  

Phoenix has been great for me as well.  I often fantasize about moving there!  It's def my number 1 place for domestic sex tourism!  I've always managed to find one or two lovely young SBs who are DTF with an out of town visitor!

It sounds like your sugar relationships are purely about sex. This is obviously the driving force for all of us, but I think to keep things interesting you need more than that. For me, it's about sharing moments both in and out of the bedroom, along with interesting conversations. And what I find is that good moments outside the bedroom make the sex better. The other important element is being able to please them, both sexually and otherwise. It's just incredibly satisfying to be able to put a smile on a young woman's face and make them orgasm. The more they enjoy the experience, the better it becomes for you as well. Otherwise we're just riding mechanical bulls.

Seems all I've run into the last few years are amateur escorts. Very few interested in doing things in public.

Totally agree, I couldn't have said it better.  That's why we don't tend to get bored after a few months, like the OP reported.  For us, it keeps getting better.  But no judgment.  If your motivation is lots of sexual variety and you prefer new ones all the time, you do you, and we'll do us!

I know it seems counterintuitive because we are obsessed with sex and great sexual experiences. But I view sex as a means to an end.. to feel connected to another person. The first time you have sex with a new girl it's so amazing because you are starting that connection and there is a potential. But if you don't follow up with some variety and new things, yes it can get old. The trick with SBs is to make that connection and deepen it while keeping the boundaries that allow you to have your separate lives.

Good moments and sexual tension outside of the bedroom is definitely a great contributor to more exciting experiences inside the bedroom. I can see how you might think from my original post that my sugar girlfriends and I are strictly sexual. However, that's actually not the case. We always go on actual dates every time we get together. Dinners, shows, museums, concerts, ect. Like I posted a bit earlier, I vacationed with them too (see the Disneyland post earlier in the this thread).