So it's come to this - partially by choice, partially by circumstance.  
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For the foreseeable future (with one exception - see my next post), I am down to two SB's alternating each week:  
1. My main SB - we call each other BF and GF, but it's still PPM. She tells me she's only physically seeing her parents and me and she's doing all her part-time work tutoring virtually. She recently asked me to buy a sexy French maid costume and other sexy outfits she can wear for me.  Of course I obliged - Amazon to the rescue on the cheap. You can get many of these for $10-$30. When they arrived, she not only put on the pink, see-through lace maid outfit, she actually spent an hour cleaning my house before we knocked it out in the bedroom.    
2. My newest SB - the 19 year old submissive Latina who I fucked silly after I gave her multiple O's from DATY. She told me she'd never cum that many times in  a hour (True? Who cares?). Found out she also likes DT with my hands forcing her head down on me, getting choked and hair pulled, having her ass and tits slapped and being called a whore, slut, cum dumpster, etc.  And she thinks she was quite clever to push me up to $300 ppm. She's 8 miles from my home and drives.  
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The others I would want to see are out of town for various reasons and don't want to travel (at their expense or mine) right now. Understandable. But that incudes 2 AA 5'1", 98 lb. spinners who fuck like I have the last dick on Earth and one porn star who I fuck like she has the last pussy on Earth.  Fortunately I have some vids of her on my phone (Close up of her face, smiling and saying "Daddy just came in my mouth!" as cum drips off her chin).  Gotta love a 22 year old SB Porn Star who really commits.  
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Anyway, I've hidden my profile and latest activity date on SA for now, though I am still reviewing new nearby profiles every day or so.  
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So that's my status quo for the foreseeable future.  Except for.... see next post.  
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How have you (or haven't you) adapted to the lock down situation?  
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Life is good
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The Cat

I'm surprised by the number of SB submissive who want to relive 50 Shades of Grey.  I've met three who pretty much let you do anything, want you to do anything, and fourth who texts a great sub game but I think she's all talk.

I don't think that explains it.  Fifty Shades of Grey sold 125 million copies, mostly to women.  I doubt they were all sexually abused.  There is a common submissive fantasy among many women.  (Also among some men.)

I’ve had plenty that wanted to be bound and gagged, tied up, slapped, spanked, tits slapped , and a few that wanted me to punch them in the face etc.  
I’m not good at knots, the only thing I want in their mouth is my dick and spunk, I’ll spank their butts.... maybe slap a tit or two but that’s about it.  I just can’t abuse them like that.

Yeah I agree with Lester. The submissive tendency is quite widespread, more than can be explained by a history of abuse.  Right now I have one good example of that.  The SB in question is tall, model thin and model pretty, one of the most beautiful women I've ever enjoyed.  she's from a good family, good upbringing, very smart, goal oriented, "A" student and interning in a health care job, , she's a winner and a keeper.  But she LOVES to be submissive, demands that I smack her ass and use her as I please.  I'm much rougher with her than I've ever been with any previous lover, and she rewards my efforts with a continuous stream of Os.  In every other way I treat her with great respect, but bcd she wants to be dominated and used hard.  Happy to oblige.

I have one sb that after a few bcd meetings  told me that she was submissive and wanted to be tied up and dominated.  It is a lot more common than we think.

I can't bring myself to do physical damage (hard hitting, any cutting of any sort.)  I am also a bit afraid of choking (which is actually not crushing the windpipe, but pressing on the arteries on the side of the neck.  It makes them light headed.)  I've done it on request, though.
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But spanking and slapping is not really dangerous.
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There is this one middle age lady who keeps sending me throat fuck gifs.  But she is all talk (texting), I've never met, and I think she's never actually done it.  But the fantasy is there.  She might not actually like it in practice.  Who knows?
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Anyhow, always a safe work.

I just came up with a theory about that.  We're older guys (at least I am.)  How would a young lady justify having sex with some old fossil?  Simple, what if he forced himself on her.  Then she is blameless.  So she can get lost in that fantasy -- "I'm a sweet innocent young thing and this old perv is forcing me!"