Several dates this weekend and most went bad.  Sometimes it's good to see red flags and face them.

Friday.  Date with my 32 y/o Korean SB.  We reunited after a long gap.  3 date since.  Been every other Friday but..... this may be our last date.  I pick her up as always.  She gives me an address not to the place I set the reservation for.  She set one as well saying it's Friday, let's try as many as we can.  So, we get there.  Her name is not on the list.  She starts arguing with the host.  I interrupt and ask how long for a table?  We get seated in 15 minutes so no big deal.  

Dinner goes ok but I notice she's a bit off.  Life has been stressful so maybe she needs a drink and good sex to calm down.  The spiral goes down, she drinks a lot.  Full bottle of wine.  We go back to her place where we usually just fuck and I bounce.  She does not stop talking.  Bouncing from subject to subject.  Interrupting me over and again.  I finally tell her I'm getting tired.  Still takes 45 more minutes of her rambling before sex happens.  Now the sex, she's a bit crazy so that's always fun.  But as we get started she decides to put on music and spends another 30 minutes looking for something.  I told her I was getting very impatient with her rambling and was going to leave.  She immediately undresses and we fuck.  Then she tells me she doesn't know what to do if I break up with her.  She really relies on the allowance and hasn't been able to find another SD.  I didn't know she was looking......

Saturday.  Had a girl I had one date with but was ghosted reach out.  I was free so we agreed to dinner.  She drives an hour and a half to my place (which was why I thought she ghosted at first).  At dinner she tells me how she showed my pictures to her coworker.  He said we make a great couple.  She is talking the whole time like a girlfriend.  I'm asking why I hadn't heard from her and she barely recognizes that it's been a month since we spoke.  We then go to my place, great sex again.  Her mom video calls her, wondering why her location sharing was showing a place so far away.  She then shows me to her mom to video chat with her mom on a second date!  Did I mention we just had sex and were naked under the covers?

Sunday.  Had a date scheduled with my mixed 29 y/o smoking hot girl.  Been seeing her for over a year.  She ghosts me.  I finally hear back Monday that her grandfather was in a car accident and she's been crying all day.  So she came over today to see me.  She needs the cash and probably needed to get laid more than me.  She cried a bit when explaining everything to me and said I was the only stable thing in her life right now. Work has been rough for her and her family is exploding on each other.

Monday.  Drove down to San Diego to see my Green Card Girl (GCG).  She was at least normal.  She mentions though while we are together, her birthday is coming up and wondered what I was getting her.  This was our fourth date.  I like her, but I'm not going crazy on a gift.  So we agreed to our first overnight, a dinner cruise from downtown San Diego (they are a lot of fun!).  She likes to party so we can go drinking in Gaslamp.  Then fuck in the hotel all night.  She raised her first red flag with me.  She mentioned a 'friend' of hers who married an American and moved to Texas with him.  Supposedly he bought her a house before he passed away and set her up for life in inheritance.  I did tell her I would love for our relationship to go that far.  I am not going to propose anytime soon though.  If we make it, you will be taken care of for life.  But she has to invest in that relationship as well.

So, sometimes the pussy brigade sucks the life out of you.  Sometimes just through your dick.