Was wondering if you guys have noticed this. When i first joineda year ago i rarely saw a profile that specifically said some version of "not interested in anything sexual." Yes, i would occasionally reach out and was asked what kind or arrangement i sought...when i responded and mentioned intimacy, i would get the rare response that they were not interested on "that type" of arrangement. It frustrated me a bit as they could simply put platonic in their profile. Oh well, i just moved on. I was always curious....did guys actually provide an allowance to women for the pleasureof taking her out and buying her things without sex? Anyway...in the last couple of months, there has been a major increase in my area of women specifically stating they were not interested in anything sexual...boldly (in my opinion) stating they wanted an allowance and wanted to be taken out to dinners, shopping, and travel..no intimacy. Roughly, i will estimate that 1out of 3 new profiles in the 18-24 range state some version of "no sex." It is interesting. While i give them credit for being upfront, i am a bit shocked by the way they view "mutually beneficial." So curious that when i last reached out to a woman who did NOT have this in her profile, and she told me she was not interested in anything sexual, i just had to ask...."so what is it you provide in exchange for me taking you out, buying you things, and giving you an allowance?" She did not understand my question...serves me right for asking😂😂
I've noticed an uptick of these kind of profiles in NYC recently too.
Seems like Sugar Baby-ing has been getting more attention in the media recently and maybe drawing in some girls with unrealistic expectations. Articles like the link below don't help - girl in England making $9K on What's Your Price for going out to dinner.
I have no doubt there is a market for this kind of thing, but it has to be very small and elusive.
when an escort was just that, a person to accompany you for companionship, and not sexual services.
This was not uncommon for businessmen who attended conventions or other meetings where their peers would have their wives present and thus would not feel out of place. The gals were attractive and able to hold their own socially. The fact that they were an escort was not a secret. I remember well about 30 years ago attending a convention and when the people on the dais were introduced, one man's escort was introduced just that way.
I suppose gentlemen might also requested the services of an escort when they felt like going for a night on the town and didn't want to be alone.
Men who sought sex would go to brothels which back a hundred years ago were legal or at least tolerated as long as they were discreet.
I'd be interested to know if these gals requesting Platonic relationships find a market for their services, or if they are doing this in order to avoid LE problems and will later allow sex for some kind of elevated fee once they feel right about their benefactor.
As the sugar world becomes better known, there are more scammers and more women with unrealistic expectations. Stories that are untrue or atypical abound. Women seem to think that some guys are desperate for female companionship, especially with someone young, attractive, or pleasant.
I think it's also possible that some who say hey want platonic are trying to screen out the guys who are too direct or offensive. I've heard of some SBs who say "platonic" in their profile but modify their stance in person if they like the guy. That said, I would take their profile literally. The SBs with profiles that mention something like, "we both know why we are here" are the ones to pursue.
Hey KL! I agree...if an SB has some version of "platonic" in their profile, I pass them by. The one time I engaged it was clear that the only way I was going to get in her pants was by begging her to allow me to overpay
I can't say I've noticed an uptick in the number of profiles asking for platonic only. But I have seen many that say nothing serious. Seems to me that some women who say nothing serious mean that they want a no drama, commitment free, FWB type of arrangement, while others mean the exact opposite: no sex.
My interpretation is generally "no strings or commitment." However, it could be nothing physical. Perhaps, the rest of her profile will shed more light on her intent.
... here in New York, at least, there seems to have been a boom in transexuals opening accounts and looking for love...
I don't mind the TS girls as long as they put TS in their headlines. I can easily avoid them, but hey, I wish them well.
I saw one recently where the SB said she was looking for a "plutonic" relationship. I wanted to ask her what kind of interstellar, extraterrestrial arrangement she was looking for, but I'm sure she would have had no idea what I meant.
More to the point, I too have noticed an increase in the number of profiles seeking non-sexual arrangements. Better to know that upfront, I suppose.
She must have been out of this world!
Tell her "I learned in school that Pluto is right next to Uranus" so let's go
Pluto was the Roman god of wealth and the underworld, so perhaps "plutonic" was a freudian slip.
That would be a relationship with a plutocrat, apparently.
I saw one recently where the SB said she was looking for a "plutonic" relationship. I wanted to ask her what kind of interstellar, extraterrestrial arrangement she was looking for, but I'm sure she would have had no idea what I meant.
More to the point, I too have noticed an increase in the number of profiles seeking non-sexual arrangements. Better to know that upfront, I suppose.
If it says that I just don't bother, makes an impression on me that she's unreasonably scared to begin with, these types are a total pain in the ass. I'd rather she just tell me in private, I'd respect that.
One sugarbaby I have I just eat with and she's never brought up the platonic clause. Her father is a district attorney so I'd rather not do the zoom zoom in the boom boom but that also makes conversations really interesting. I really like this one. Surprisingly there are some babies that come from affluent families. Only their living expenses are covered and they end up with little leisure money.
Take it as you will, but yesterday a 24 year old, who posted hot, somewhat revealing photos, told me that she was shocked that I had naughty desires, that she was a virgin, and would stay that way until married...