There's a provider who I consider to be one of my ATF's. I've known her for 4 years. In all the years we've been playing I would DATY, finger her etc with no problems and it seemed she enjoyed it, but over the last few month's it seems she's become so sensitive she won't let me near her vagina after a couple of licks. Do women sometimes get more sensitive over time? Or is this a way of her telling me, buddy you don't know what the hell you're doing so back off. I'm confused?
it could be both. Certainly, if someone is in the sexual services profession, parts of the body heavily in use could become oversensitive. It may be temporary or it may be permanent, depending on age, hormonal levels, general well-being. On the other hand, maybe she's just psychologically tired of you; if that's the case, her body will not cooperate.
It's up to you to decide if you want to hang around and wait for this part of the sexual interaction to become available to you, or if you should just move on. Clearly, it's off limits for now.
I've noticed a few of her reviews have mentioned this sensitivity. She seems excited to receive DATY at first, but some 60 secs into it she's so sensitive that her legs clamp up and she pushes me away. If I do see her again, it will be BJ for me and then straight sex.
Not sure exactly why her sensitivity to clitoral stimulation seems to have changed, but there are other ways of performing cunnilingus. You could simply try using your tongue to stimulate 'around' her clit, not directly on it. Also, you may want to keep your tongue in a more 'relaxed' posture rather than more rigid.
Obviously, refrain from using fingers unless she asks for it.
My SOs have sometimes been more sensitive than others. These kind of things worked for both of us. I got to play, she didn't have that, 'grab his hair and yank him away' kind of reaction.
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