Ok she said it!  You didn't see it coming, but it happened anyway.  Your arrangement has been running smoothly for a while. She's on time, never too clingy (unless she's naked) and even your non-BCD times are effortless and enjoyable. She gives you positive energy and makes you look forward to your next date as soon as you finish your current date.  

 
And then it happens! She says those three words you absolutely were NOT expecting!  

 
What did she say? Let us know, in order of worst to best, what she said:  

 
1. I love you.
2. I am pregnant
3. I have syphilis
4. I am engaged
5. I am moving
6. I am done
7. I am trans
8. I am bored
9. (Something else)

 
And then, tell us which of these have actually happened to you.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

1. I am married
2. It's not yours, following the I'm pregnant, but that might be good
3. It is yours, lol
4. I'm getting deported
5. I have herpes
6. Met your wife/girlfriend

Know your address.

Is it in

I got the text last Monday:  "I am not well. I am pregnant."  

 
My 26-year-old Latina Nursing Student let me know Monday evening.  Fortunately, this was not the panic-inducing shock you may expect any SD to endure.  She has a boyfriend of several years and I hadn't CIP'd  her in at least a month (she swallows and likes it). Plus, I have an uncommon advantage in this area; I had a vasectomy in 2021 (What the hell else was there to do during COVID lock downs? LOL).  

 
So instead of looking for a way out I flipped to the supportive guy routine: "How can I help?" She told me she will go to Planned Parenthood ASAP and would let me know. The next day, Tuesday, she told me she has an appointment today, Thursday. I asked her if the BF was going with her, and she said no. (Ok this was a round-about way to ask if the cheap-ass BF knew, and if he was going to "man-up" to support her with whatever decision she makes.) Apparently, he knows. And according to her, the gist of that conversation was: "Well, I can't support you if you can't work."  What a Pince of Men!  

 
I offered to go with her to the appointment and she declined. I offered to let her rest and recoup at my place after and she says she may do that.  

 
I'll not comment further on the failures of a BF who has said he wants to eventually marry her. You can read into his response to this situation all that you need to know.  

 
For me, I'm in more of a Daddy role than Sugar today.  Tomorrow my Asian Porn Star will stop by on her way to the X3 Expo Show in Los Angeles and the Hollywood Palladium (Friday and Saturday).  So even though I probably won't be going BCD with my Latina SB for the next few weeks, I'll still be having fun before I head out to the Philippines next month.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

For being a good human being at a time when she needs one.
We sometimes forget abotu this amid all the passion.. Of course it would've been more complicated if you were responsible but you have taken the appropriate steps.

The boyfriend is a POS .  But I think she knows it  - or at least she should.  She also knows  you care.

She needs to see the writing on the wall with this guy.

Enjoy the trip!

Is it in ? Yes

Does it hurt ? No  

And she bought the new pair of shoes

The BF wanted her to have an abortion and refused to pay child support after she decided to have the baby. Another POS. I am sure he didn't even pay for the abortion. The baby is only four months old now. I saw her once at her place after she had the baby. It was kind of weird at the beginning, but the baby was asleep the whole time I was there so I got used to it after a while. It's hard to be a single mom so I send her a couple of dollars once in a while to help out.

I wouldn't automatically default to backing the lady who gets preggy and decides to go to full term vs the sperm donor who doesn't want to be a daddy.  He's completely chopped out of the decision making -- and unless she was raped, the initial decision was 50/50.