Saw a profile - v brief . Pics poorly taken but hot body and I could see through the poor photography so reached out,’she quickly hit me back on SA msg … With super direct and brief messages.. I thought pretty much that I am dealing w a pro

Now we are on text - sends me a hot pic of her unprovoked, ok definitely a pro … she also hosts .. more confirmation. Why am I bothering w this. What the heck , I setup a lunch date anyways  

She is punctual and timely w communication- showed up on exactly due time we set up - wtf ? This is a first. But god she is drop dead gorgeous- looked like mid 20s, tall, slim , curves in right places. why did she take those pics so poorly if she is a pro ? Anyways  

Lunch turns into a good conversation- my god, she used to work at a f king private equity firm in investor relations - huh? Must be lying - so I ask a few questions (not directly ofc) only someone familiar would know the answers to and bang bang she actually answers them all and knows what a discounted cash flow is - now my head is spinning  
 
I setup a date for the following day , go to her place - again exactly on time, she has a nice pad, a lovely dog and is — wait for it, an artist ? Her work easel etc is all over the apartment. We kiss a bit and continue chatting and she tells me about the time she did a small part in a tv show - I saw the clip she showed me  and was like damn it’s the same girl  

By now I realized I have stumbled into a weird situation - luckily ofc — but something I would have just passed on if I had strictly gone by the profile evaluation tools that I have used in the past  

We roll into the bed and have an awesome time. It was fun but a bit quirky as she has a whole bunch of rules in terms of what she wants. I mean I wanted to have my way with that total knockout body of hers but she had different ideas. I mean don’t get me wrong, bcd was totally fine , but I feel could have been so much better  

Anyways now I look at the clock and a full 4 hrs have passed in the afternoon and I have to leave - she would be ok w me spending the evening w her. I give her the envelope (600) and am wondering to myself why is she doing this - all she could tell me during her chat is she is stuck w some old family obligations she needs to work through whatever that means  

So anyways - was she a pro ? probably not ? But had pro like professionalism in some areas and then sb like in others (no time limit) . She wants to see me again , but I am wondering if I can get a better bcd experience with her next time. Not sure if I want to see her again but she was something- this is why the bowl is so much fun!

I think you captured the real lesson here:  Your profile filters and rules are directional, but not absolute.  

 
Once you get a POT to actively message you, her messages can be used to refine your evaluation of her intent, personality, and compatibility.  So I suggest "listening" to her through two parallel "lenses" (I know, mixed metaphor):  
1. Is she just dropping bait before she tries to set the scammer hook?  
2. Is she likely to be good SB for me?  

 
And as you just found out, once you get to BCD you will get the last piece (pun intended) of the puzzle - sexual compatibility and satisfaction.  And that will always be an ongoing evaluation.  Just like with civilian dating, each SB is an individual, with her own quirks, likes & dislikes. If you like dating her, and you are comfortable with her allowance, does it really matter if she is a pro, semi-pro, or GND with a parallel life in the corporate world?  In my 35+ years in financial services, I've met any number of women who could have been amazing SB's. Of course, you don't play where you work!  It's simply not worth risking your career - or hers! - by crossing the streams.  But when I lived in Silicon Valley working at a global FinTech company, I dated several SB's who had lower paying jobs at the other global brands in the area.  

 
Finally, kudos for finding an SB that understands time management! That skill, my friend, is indeed rare in the Sugar Bowl.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Lol yes - the punctuality is what blew me away , no one else has that nailed down so far in my rotation

In my experience, the Asian SBs  (excluding Filipinas) are usually quite punctual. Punctuality also seems to correlate with proper grammar and punctuation, and timely communication.

If only I could find Filippinas in my area! Other than my original Filippina Unicorn from 10 years ago, it's difficult to find, let alone set up a M&G with them in my part of LA.  There is a significant percentage of the local population that is in that group. But I don't see them in the sugar bowl.  As it turns out, I am planning on a one-month trip to Manila later this year where I expect to be overwhelmed with 18-30+ Pinays who want to play.  I will resist the urge to bring one (or more!) back with me... but it may prove difficult.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

It might seem like a quality of low priority compared with how hot she is, her $$ requirements, etc.  But a girl who shows up on time and respects your own schedule is worth her weight in gold.  My current regulars are exceptional about time and I am so grateful.  They show up on time or let me know of any delays promptly.  Even the one who drives 60 miles to visit me always shows up on time.  One of many incredible reasons I love her!

I can barely slog thru the 15 min train ride into the office and they pay me a boatload of $$$ to show up! You got a girl to drive 60 miles each way?!? haha

I've said it before;  The allowance gets their panties to drop once. But your tongue gets them to drop again, and again, and again.  

 
Good job, Papa Sweet!  

 
Life is sweet

 
The Cat

It's true and never ceases to amaze me.  The nearest city with a university is a 50-60 mile drive from my home, depending on which side of town you're in.  That's where 90% of the SBs in my state live, so that's where I usually wind up going for dates.  I expect to drive for an hour each way to see them, it's an accepted part of my sugar dating routine.  So it astonishes me when one of them offers to drive up to my home for our dates.  I've had several do that, several who were long term arrangements and very special to me in every way.  One of my current SBs alternates: one date I'll go to her place in the city, next time she drives up to my place.  And they all seem very happy with 2 bens per visit.  Prime pussy delivered right to my door.  Am I a lucky dog or what?