Sorry, Friend Euro-Guy,
NO girl mistakenly thinks Seeking is a dating site like eHarmony or Match. Girls only find the site by seeing an ad about meeting wealthy men, or when a friend tells them about sugaring.
Only scammers use that angle, and here's how it works:
"She" is working in a scam farm overseas creating multiple profiles an hour for pay. "She" has been trained to cut and paste a pre-written block of text into every profile that presents "her" as a pretty but lonely gal looking for that one special simp (er... I mean guy) who will finally recognize "her" as a worthwhile lady and not just another whore ready to be conquered.
They are counting on finding a guy who desperately wants a woman who is "real" and not materialistic. Can you see how this is diametrically opposed to "legit" POT's who think they can earn extra cash and maybe live a more upscale and fun life along the way?
No. If the "I'm looking for a nice guy" schtick was real, they would tag their profile as platonic and make it clear they won't be DTF in their text. In addition, they would be eager to meet for coffee NOW!
Conversations with these "women" always follow the same (pre-written) script:
1. Hi. I'm so glad to meet you. You seem so genuine.
2. I'm actually financially secure because I [own a fashion business, am an international investor, made my fortune in crypto, etc.] and I hope we can partner together.
3. I'm not ready to meet now because [I'm on travel in Honk Kong, I need to get to know you better, I prefer to talk here...until we establish a rapport]. BTW: "She" will NEVER be available to meet!
4. Let's connect on WhatsApp (because I am no in the US, even though my profile says I am in your city.)
5. Sends fake pics of a model, poised eating food from a magazine, or walking through a Euro-metropolis wearing "smart and modern" designer clothes.
6. She will keep "innocently chatting" until it's time to sink the hook and offer to let you in how to get rich with crypto. That's the scam bait, hook, and net.
If you really think ANY (or at least 99.99999% of) SBs are really only in it for the relationship, try asking her this:
"Hey babe, I think we have such a great connection, and I can't imagine my life without you. Can we drop the allowance and give this relationship the room it needs to properly blossom into our greatest potential?"
If you think she will agree to that.... please give her my email and phone number before you see her ass running out the door and she disappears over the horizon at warp speed. (Scotty! I need more power!)
Life is good
The Cat