I wasn't intending to write this but I keep posting in the wrong forum and instead of asking to delete this ... . I think I am going to walk away from the sugar bowl and go back to pros. My issue is I don't really like to repeat too much with the same person, regardless of how stellar. So that causes a few problems with SB's. First I assume most of them want some sort of regular recurring relationship. And secondly the amount of time it takes to find someone willing. This all weighs against constant variety. . It's also true that you can get SB's cheaper on an hourly basis, but in the end, I really don't want to spend long hours with them. I'm in it for the sex, which beyond 90 minutes or so isn't especially rewarding at my age. . So my subscription on Secret Benefits is nearing its end. I think I'll let it lapse.
Nothing wrong with a hit and run preference, if that's where you see the most benefit.
The good news is you leave the Sugar Bowl able to return anytime you want. Good luck with your new diet, which I assume will be more of an endless tasting menu than a weekly lunch schedule. :p
Whatever makes you happy. Good luck and enjoy. I walked away from what was a phenomenal run of banging escorts. Had some stellar UTR's, private phone numbers and one of DC's best who would see me anytime I called at her actual apt as opposed to the flop pad. Now I am addicted to the Sugar Bowl. But that works for me and it might be banging hookers that takes you to your happy place.
Once you understand what makes you happiest, go for it. When I was dating escorts I thought I loved the variety. And I did, up to a point. But once I discovered the sort of ongoing relationships available in the sugar bowl I realized that's what actually made me happiest. So I quit escorts and haven't been back in years. Whatever works for you!
We sat down and made a list recently and my wife has met 8 of my SBs! 9 if you count the one escort I became friendly with who my wife also actually had a session with. 10 if you count the one I never went BCD with but who my wife took under her wing. One of those 8 became such a good friend that she often stayed overnight with me while my wife was home. They enjoyed seeing each other walking around the house naked! I realize my home situation is unusual but it's why I can enjoy ltrs with SBs even though I'm married. My awesome wife is cool with it, and I'm cool with her seeing other guys.
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