The Erotic Highway

Re: my modus operandi
Scaramouche 204 Reviews 988 reads
posted
1 / 10

Do any of you guys take our SBs to your residence? Obviously not not who are in relationships but if you're on your own... what are the pros and cons?  
Haven't done it but it could come up....

herbtcat 6 Reviews 67 reads
posted
2 / 10

I always have my SB's meet at my home.  But they don't get the invite or address until after we have a good M&G and have agreed on arrangement details, which may take a few day after the M&G for some noob SB's.  

 
I establish some common sense rules along the way:  
1. No unannounced drop ins - ever.  
2. She MUST text me 1st to see if I am available.  
3. The 1st time a new SB comes to my home, I make sure I can see her arrive, park, and approach my home. If there are any unexpected people in her car, or if SHE is not whom I am expecting, I don't answer.  

Note: My car gets parked out of sight. So if she ever just shows up unannounced, she can't tell if I am home. If  she rings the bell (I have a Ring Doorbell) or texts me from my porch, I just tell her I'm not home. But so far, that hasn't happened.  

And: I have a service clean my home weekly. They occasionally find some interesting items in my sofa, bedroom, or bathroom which I can then dispose of or store out of sight.   It's better if the service finds that earring , make up brush, or lace panty then if the "wrong" SB finds them.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

sweetman 93 Reviews 77 reads
posted
3 / 10

Only after I've had several dates and really trust a SB will I invite her to my home.  It has worked out very well, never any problems.  It's never occurred to me to specify no unannounced visits, they've always assumed that's the case and I've never had that problem.  But it couldn't hurt to say it out loud.  I am very happily married, and my wife approves of my sugar dating.  If I invite a girl home I have to make sure it won't inconvenience my wife.  She has met several of my SBs and with one of them she was quite happy to be home while I was playing with my SB!  My concern with having SBs in my homeis that I do keep firearms and so I prefer to lock them away when I have a SB at home.  Just wanna be safe.

liqq63 19 Reviews 71 reads
posted
4 / 10

Have had zero issues with entertaining SBs at my home.  They are the ones who state they have some conflict meeting at their place, such as roommates or family.  And yes, I can observe when they arrive without them knowing.

benwabbles 17 Reviews 68 reads
posted
5 / 10

If at all possible (which is pretty much all of the time):
 ° I never provide personal info (burner phone, anonymous email)
 ° Meet at a nearby establishment with a large parking lot that will still be active when we return (e.g. a movie theatre if it will be late)
 ° Because I say that I cannot have a strange auto in my driveway due to prying eyes (somewhat true), we drive to my house in my car and park in the attached garage.
 ° I take a different route to/from and talk/ask questions to distract from the actual route

So far, the above seems to have worked. Once some familiarity and semblance of trust is established, I care less about hiding the route. But they are more comfortable too, so they seem to care less also.  If they do not, there are usually some other red flags that end things anyway.

For my situation, this works.

sweetman 93 Reviews 54 reads
posted
6 / 10

I'm surprised your SBs accept this way of doing things.  Women these days are understandably afraid of being kidnapped or worse.  Nobody wants to wind up on Dateline, right?  Getting into your car and leaving theirs behind is something I'd never ask a female to do since it's exactly the kind of creepy thing a bad guy would do.  One SB told me how she met a guy at a restaurant and he seemed nice, so she followed him to his house, each in their own car.  Once inside everything changed.  He key-locked the door from the inside and would not unlock it and started dragging her to the bedroom.  Somehow she grabbed the keys when his back was turned, got the hell outa there and drove away in her car.  If she had not had her own car there things could have been much worse.  So how do you get your SBs to accept your modus operandi?

Daddyhasneeds 59 reads
posted
7 / 10

I have had 1 pro to my home a few years ago. I had been seeing her regularly for a few years and we had already travelled together and knew most personal info already. I had a fantasy of screwing her on my pool table. I was concerned about my neighbors, so I picked her up and parked in the garage.  

I may consider having SB # 1 over at some point. I’ve been to her place a few times. We are heading out of town together this weekend. I’m with you Sweetman as far as meeting her a mile away in a shopping plaza, and parking in the garage. I’m married, and we are friends with many of our neighbors. I can’t have Babygirl parking in my driveway. That wouldn’t be a good look, and I don’t want to make up stories.

benwabbles 17 Reviews 68 reads
posted
8 / 10

Well, surprise! I've done this with at least 5 different SBs (there might be more, but I could remember 5 as a quick count). Some possible explanations:
1  —  most of my SBs have hosted  
2  —  I am not as prolific as others on here, so maybe I haven't run into one yet that finds this unacceptable
3  —  #1 and #2 means this is a small sample, however it is 100% (i.e. none have questioned it)
4  —  There is always a meet and greet or an introductory phone call, so I guess I seem normal enough to them. I really don't know.
5  —  It's almost an aside when we discuss meeting BCD. So maybe it's the nonchalance?  
6  —  Maybe #4 also indirectly weeds out SBs who would object? But almost always if we get to the meet and greet / phone call stage, we go BCD

So, good question. I obviously do not have the answer. I haven't even thought about it until now.  I guess you would really have to ask them. May they RIP. lol sorry, couldn't resist. 🤣

tozer 72 Reviews 76 reads
posted
9 / 10

I have always had my SB's in New York come to my apartment and have never had a problem. We become comfortable with each other first over coffee or a dinner and more often than not wind up BCD. I have had SBs in Los Angeles when I was there on business. They always have come to my hotel room.

AnotherDonJohn 70 reads
posted
10 / 10

After a M&G like Hc said.

I think the rules for “pop ins” go for any new GF, so it’d be crazy if a SB just assumed she was immune to “common sense.”

No issues since almost certainly by the first BCD I’ve established their real identities… even if I have to peek at a Drivers license during a bathroom visit lol!

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