Just finished a fascinating text chat with a (now ex) POT .  
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22 Years old, blonde, 5'9", rail thin, and says she submissive in her profile.  That hits most of my buttons (she's a bit of a butter face-not ugly-just plain, and not Asian) and I was delighted when she favorited my profile this morning.  
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We exchanged a few pleasantries on SA, then moved on text. Here's a summary of her asks-collected over about 90 minutes:
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She lives 24 miles/40 minutes away and has no car. Asked me to pick her up or send a rideshare.
She wont do or accept oral. Hard stop. Not happening.
She wont do anal-not really my thing, but she made a point.
She wont kiss on the mouth.
Condoms required - even with fresh mutual tests and alternate birth control (paid for my me)
Wants $300 ppm, with outdoor time (i.e.: dinner/shopping) and indoor time, for 3-4 hours per meet.  
Will not spend the night.
Didn't get to discuss frequency of meets.
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So I politely told her I'm going to pass.  Told her I'd go up to $350 without any restrictions and that I'd cover transportation.  
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She suggested we talk on the phone.  
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I passed again and wished her luck.  All done politely, but firmly.  
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So that's it. Note that I went through profiles for about 12 POT's (excluding obvious fakes) that favorited me to get to this one.  I should also note for the newer SD's here that I (almost) never message 1st, unless the POT has favorited AND viewed my profile.  Even then, I reverse image check and carefully read her profile to make sure my Spidey Senses aren't going off before I send a message.  
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Par for the course, actually. Fortunately, as I was texting her, I was also texting my 19 year old Latina who likes - scratch that - prefers to get dominated by Daddy and scheduled a fuck fest at my place on Friday.  $$$ for an all access afternoon.  
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Life is good.
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The Cat

What's not to love? It is slightly better than being in a bad marriage, mainly because it was so easy for you to get out of. lol

 
Personally I could live with the distance, and "some" of her restrictions, but I can tell (as can you, obviously) that the sex is going to be about as good as fucking a $60 BNG Back Page hooker. Probably ten minutes of lousy sex followed by "take me to the mall Daddy" where she'll spend the next 2-3 hours seeing how much more money she can suck out of you.

All true.  
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It's a good example that not all red flags show up in a profile.  And this why I insist on "managed" discussion about specifics before talking about allowance amounts and certainly before scheduling BDC time.  But that's my approach, others use a different playbook quite successfully.  
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So when a POT and I connect off the site the 1st time and she immediately goes into "let's meet tonight" without any other discussion, my Spidey senses go off. Now if I verify she's a pro or semi-pro (either her pics or phone are on hooker ad sites, or she just tells me), then I shift tactics and go to my hooker vetting script.
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Life is good.
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The Cat