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Re: Is this a mental or physical thing, or both....regular_smile
sandy+money 6614 reads
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sweetie i think its a menally think because it only happens when you think of what you did and how it felt.

mrfisher7741 reads

Being in my later 50's, I have noticed a certain drop off in my desire to masturbate, however there has developed a new habit in the last few years which is to masturbate within a day or less of having had frequent sexual activity.

For example, this past weekend I came three times in under 24 hours with two different women, yet as I tried to get to sleep Sunday night, I couldn't get the images of the sexual trysts I had had our of my mind and had to masturbate in order to finally get some sleep.

I have, for some years, been deliberately avoiding masturbation for at least three or four days prior to my weekend sexual forays so as to maintain peak potency during same; but why this desire to masturbate shortly after activity  when, by all rights, I should be more than sated?

Every hear of this before?

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sandy+money6615 reads

sweetie i think its a menally think because it only happens when you think of what you did and how it felt.

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Bostonguy577288 reads

I sometimes masturbate an hour or two after my ATF leaves my hotel room. Occasionally I do it twice! Sometimes I still wake up the next morning with a hard on and have to do it again before I can shower and head for home!

I also abstain for at least two days before a meeting with my ATF and this definitely pays dividends during our appointments.

I'm in my early 50's and, though I'm pretty much a one pop guy during appointments, my sex drive seems to be stronger now than it was when I was in my 40's

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Love Goddess8087 reads

Well, mrfisher,

If your mind is preoccupied by sexual thoughts, action usually follows. It may be that these "trysts" are more meaningful to you or make more of an impression on your psyche than when you were younger. Or, the quality of the sexual encounter may have increased in recent years, for a variety of reasons. Thus, you are just wanting to squeeze out the most in terms of sensation and feeling good.

Self-pleasuring is a good idea in general so if you need to add to what you've already enjoyed, just go right ahead.

Have fun,
the Love Goddess

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mrfisher8954 reads

I've got to ponder that for a bit.

Here I am always thinking that I'm more immune to emotional ties the more women I see.

Could it be just the opposite, and if so, where am I heading?

All I know is that it sure is a nice way to fall off to sleep, and it sure beats Sominex.

Thanks for the input, as always.

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Jack Nicholson6929 reads

I hate to say it Mr Fisher but with Jack it is age that is reducing my libido.  Besides 2 or three time a day is not bad!

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mike225842 reads

Mr Fisher,
I am roughly the same age as you and I have almost the same issue.  Every time I see my ATF, I have to review the session in my mind for quite some time afterward.  It always winds up with me being aroused to the point that I feel the need to masturbate with visions of all that we did and how well we connect strongly in my thoughts.  For me that only happens with my ATF, no other sexual experience rises to that level.

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showmecal5731 reads

because I do the same thing. For some reason in my memory I am a more dynamic lover than in reality:) I also try to go three or four days without uh pleasuring myself before a sexual foray however I do not always meet that goal as the anticipation becomes intense and my self control is not the best.

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