Thanks AsianManNOVA, this is a great strategy. You just increased my potential pool. Previously, I did not explore SB's outside of a 25 mile radius. We are in a target rich environment, so never an issue.
If you rent the hotel room, do you let the SB stay overnight if you have to leave? I am married and therefore don't do local overnights. How do you handle the situation when a new SB wants to stay in the hotel room after you leave? Recently had 2 young new SB's who requested to stay in the room after I had to leave. One I didn't trust, so kicked her out. The other basically was too tired and over-served, so I let her stay. Went back in the AM to try and have a morning treat, but she was completely asleep. I guess it's a matter of trust.
No way. Seriously, dude, that room is in your name, and the liability is totally yours. Suppose she trashes the room? Suppose she entertains other guys and the cops come, or hotel management notices, etc. In some states (mine is one) you can be in worse trouble than just "prostitution" because you provided the space. That scenario may be unlikely, but you just don't want to go anywhere near that.
So, that's an extremely bad idea. If the little darling wants to stay overnight in the room, have HER get the room with her credit card (if she even has one) and you give her extra cash to reimburse for that cost.
I usually have to vacate to get home by a certain hour in the evening. So I just let 'em stay. Most of them are expecting return visits, so they'll typically be on good behavior in order to score future cash.
keep the room - I could care less if they are joined by anyone and if she punches the mini-bar she "owes me"...
Never had a problem...
I come back for morning quickies. They are respectful and the room is fine. Plus I give the half the allowance in the evening and half in the morning. Keeps everyone honest.
For newer SBs, I would only allow it if they put their credit card on file for incidentals.
Otherwise, I might consider it if I were allowed to put down the deposit in cash. Or if it were really late and the odds of her using the room for anything else are essentially non existent. I'd also keep a key and go back the next day for a morning fuck as well as to make sure it's all taken care of.
I've had girls offer to see me at hotel rooms that their other sugar daddy or maybe even their pimp booked. I never went through with it because it smelled shady, but I'm guessing many guys wouldn't be that careful.
I've only let unicorns stay on their own, but by that time, they're long past the pay per visit stage and are basically just girlfriends.
I was a nice guy and let a gal stay in the room as I had to run off to work early the next morning.
When I got the bill later, about $500 of room service and spa fees were added on. (Four Seasons) WTF!
When I called her up about that she apologized and said I could apply that $500 towards the next session, but then she ghosted.
Another tuition bill for the school of hard knocks.
That’s why I use nice hotels but not resorts. LaQ, HGI, CI, not super low end but ok stuff. Can’t run me up if no room service or spa.
I've never done it and probably wouldn't unless it was a long term relationship. Like at least over a year.
But I always ask the front desk to make a note that only I can order room services. So far, I have let about half a dozen stay without any incidents. Several of them drive from Baltimore and Richmond to see me so I figure the least I can do is to let them stay overnight without having to drive back on the same day.
I live in Northern VA and because of the distance, have typically avoided those from Baltimore and Richmond. Please share your strategy on how you get them to drive the distance to see you?
I offered them 100 more than the going rate in Baltimore and Richmond which makes it equivalent to the going rate in DC when we started the arrangement. Over time, once we got to know each better, they would take less after I became a regular. I have known them for over 2 years now. Right now, I offer the SB in Baltimore whatever I can afford at the time and sometimes I help out a little if she needs emergency cash so there is no fix rate anymore. The one in Richmond let’s me pay her bills in lieu of cash, and the one in West Virginia takes Visa gift card. My live-in GF has no access to my financial information so I can use my CC to buy the gift cards and pay the bills. Once the SB’s become comfortable with you, they will compromise. I am sure they hate to go through the negotiation process on SA over and over again. It is no different than with escorts; the favorite regular clients usually get discounts.
Thanks AsianManNOVA, this is a great strategy. You just increased my potential pool. Previously, I did not explore SB's outside of a 25 mile radius. We are in a target rich environment, so never an issue.
Guess I've been lucky...when I do play on my home turf, I will only meet an SB either
A) comfortable enough to tell me their real name. I book the hotel under their name, play with hotels.com or VISA gift cards I purchased at Sam's as part of general office supply purchases so they are not detectable (own my own business)
B) my current SB since Day 1 booked and paid the hotel herself and I just reimbursed her via allowance (she also drives an hour to meet me, not coimpensated
In both cases either they gave a CC at check in for incidentals (yes, rules out the college types in most cases) or they dont and the hotel blocks their room from any charges.
In both scenarios, if the SB wants to stay -- which i encourage -- it has no trace back to me and allows for the "modified overnighter" -- meet at 3 and fuck till 5. Meet her again the next morning when i'm supposed to be at work and wife is at the gym.
That's a nice setup. I guess I like to be in control of logistics too much to rely on SB's to get the room. My preference is to pick the hotel, check-in to the room and adjust the temperature as necessary, have a glass of wine and relax about 20-30 minutes before the SB arrives. Depending on the SB and day/time, I'll bring music, food and/or candles.
Last week SB#2 met me mid-afternoon on the top floor of nice hotel. Keep the curtains open and enjoyed the fabulous view while we shared a chardonnay. Beautiful, sunny, but cold outside; warm and toasty inside. After a few hours of fun, let her stay overnight with one of her girlfriends. Bought them a bottle of wine and offered them room service which SB#2 declined. Stated that they would go down and eat in the hotel restaurant on their dime.
I am not sure how this would work with two gals, but I usually have them check in with their real first names and my last name. They usually get a little thrill out of being addressed as Mrs. XXX by the hotel staff.