If male hobbists find the GirlFriend Experience they're looking for, can it be considered a BoyFriend Experience from the providers' points of view?

 
Personally, when a provider satisfies me with a great GFE or a Super GFE, I walk away from it so happy that I can barely contain myself.
It doesn't matter to me that she's acting or faking or pretending or role-playing, because I know for sure that she doesn't love me, I know she's primarily there for the money.
It does, however, matter to me that beyond the money, she has gotten at least a little something out of spending time with me.
I don't have any illusions that I love any provider, for me it's just four things: ego-stroking and pure lust and fulfillment of fantasy and physical gratification.
During a session, there are some providers who genuinely seek to please me, to do what I like to do, to let me do what I like to do. A woman in this game has the potential to really enjoy herself with a client or to merely tolerate a client.

Providers, is it a stretch to say you sometimes get a BFE from us?

but for me, Yes.

Part of my screening process is not just for safety to determíne Who you may be, but more of an exercise to determíne How You May Be,,,,,and how You May be with me, are you really interested in Me as a Slut.  Being Sapiosexual I am most interested in those who appeal to me intellectually and I have found that to be the key element to a memorable time for them and me. Recalling my conversation( s) with them prior to the event, fantasising about them and the pending encounter prior to arrival I find exciting, intriguing and arousing (while salivating and lubricating).  Rarely am I disappointed or my fantasies/expectations not realized which creates yes a BFE for me.  I have and seek no other gratification outside of this arena so it is doubly fulfilling  for Me and I hope my partner too.  Fulfillment of my lust, slutty fantasies and sexual gratification are mutually beneficial  byproducts of Our time together. I have never been good at perpetuating long term vanilla relationships but here I find myself with NSA.......just too much of a Slut, I guess but I'm good with it .

Suzee the slut

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Thank you for the great answer, Suzee.
You and I think a lot alike.

.....great minds....I would be pleased to TASTE your acquaintance!!!!

Suzee the slut

If you want to live in the fantasy that providers enjoy client sex, don't read their twitters.  Many are pretty open about hating their clients.

I have to take the word of those commenting here on Twitter.  Funny thing is as much as I like to read and learn what's going on in this World and the RW I have never ventured into the  Twitter world. I have plenty of entertainment and  I'm not interested in a lot of chaotic soap opera melodrama ....I find all I need here, if I wanted All that I could go work at a strip club.  All that WOKE culture is a little too much for me and I don't get why or how it could be fruitful or satisfying to complain so much about doing something that you continue to engage in.  But that is just me and this is certainly not an indictment of those who are successfully and gainfully engaged there, good luck to them

Suzee the slut

But I do have some hooker buddies who send me links to all this craziness on a regular basis. It really is a cesspool that makes the P&R board here on TER look like a civil place in comparison. lol And it's a good way to find which hookers to AVOID at all costs. Some of these hos be cray cray. lol

... before I realized he was talking about escorts, not sugar babies.  This board has become ground zero for the sugar dating conversation to such an extent that I forget it's actually broader than that by definition, and other conversations are possible.  But it really points out the main difference between dating escorts vs dating SBs.  I truly have experienced love, and received love with SBs.  The emotional connection I often enjoy with a SB often goes way beyond the 4 things the OP listed.  That's why I continue to prefer sugar dating.

Sweet man, thank you for pointing out that the majority of conversations here in The Erotic Highway Discussion Board are about sugar babies and not providers. I guess I should have placed this on the General Discussion Board. Oops.

It is not the "official Sugar Board, so no apologies needed for not knowing about something that you would have no way of knowing.  

 
One other thing about this board, it is also one of the "friendliest" boards on TER right along with the Newbie Board. Yes, there is the occasional board troll who finds his way here and tries to make trouble, but by and large everyone on this board does their best to be helpful to vets and newbies alike.

I second...or third that HaHa.  Lot of great guys on here, us SB types just need a place to converse, not that it's anything exclusive, but more just hard to follow.

Thank you, GaGambler.

Thank you, PolePosition.