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Re: I agree, Herb. Now I've lost the finder's fee that Allred's office was going to pay me. LOL
rochmn 76 reads
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Well, it serves me right for asking a serious question and getting smart ass responses. By the way, the first sentence in my original post states that she is the manager.

rochmn917 reads

There is a young female who is a manager at a trendy  restaurant where I live.  She told she goes to college part time.  I would guess she might be mid twenties. She is very friendly to me when I come to the restaurant. Not a spinner, but not fat in any way. Good potential SB. I have no idea if she even knows what a SB is. My question is how can I approach her to find out if there  any SB/SD  possibilities?  Or am I just thinking foolishly? Do any of you sugar bowl veterans have any thoughts on this?

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mrfisher65 reads

I think you are barking up the wrong tree.

 
If you like that restaurant a lot, then I would suggest you set your sights on another path to SB-dom.   The woman is being friendly towards you because you are a customer of her restaurant, and nothing more.

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Scaramouche81 reads

Ask her for coffee.. tell her you'd like to chat. If she has any interest you take take it from there.

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AnotherDonJohn74 reads

Not an SB situation.

But by all means humiliate yourself then come tell us about it!

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herbtcat63 reads

There are literally thousands of women who have actively entered the sugar bowl looking for a sugar arrangement. They are conveniently arranged, sorted and self-documented to facilitate your selection.  

 
What you are considering is the equivalent of leaving a bookstore to find something to read.  

 
Now flip the POV and consider what will happen to her if her manager sees you hitting on her, when she has not indicated any interest in you.  Do you want to risk her job status so you can try (and most probably fail) to rack up another BCD?  

 
No, my friend. I do not recommend you go down that road.  Don't go fishing the desert.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

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DeClemente88 reads

Posted By: herbtcat
Re: Why would you even consider this?  

   
   
 Now flip the POV and consider what will happen to her if her manager sees you hitting on her, when she has not indicated any interest in you.  Do you want to risk her job status so you can try (and most probably fail) to rack up another BCD?  

   
 The Cat

Attorney Gloria Allred just called, she said she'll take the young lady's (open & shut) wrongful termination case even before any workplace repercussions even happen.

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herbtcat59 reads

LOL... ok she probably won't lose her job... but she may have to explain or complain to her manager that that creepy guy just asked her out and won't leave her alone.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

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DeClemente84 reads

Posted By: herbtcat
Re: "Risk her job status"?????????
LOL... ok she probably won't lose her job... but she may have to explain or complain to her manager that that creepy guy just asked her out and won't leave her alone.  
   
 Life is good  
   
   
 The Cat

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rochmn77 reads

Well, it serves me right for asking a serious question and getting smart ass responses. By the way, the first sentence in my original post states that she is the manager.

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herbtcat65 reads

This is a serious answer, rochman.  I missed that she is the manager. But that may be even worse! As the manager, she should be keenly aware that her actions on the job are observed by her staff.  And all managers have managers....  

 
But WTF says I'm right about this?  LOL  Guys have been picking up hot women in service jobs since forever. Well, TBH, I've never been able to do that - except for strippers.  

 
So you might as well go for it and see what happens. Worst case, you'll need to find a new place to eat.  Best case, you will find a new place to EAT! :)  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

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blue5361131 reads

If you like her, just ask the girl out! If you have no game or it’s a complete mismatch go back to SA, throw out multiple lines and start reeling them in!

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lester_prairie72 reads

We all hear stories (or in some cases happened to us) about turning some hot chick.  What we don't hear as much is the thousands of times this doesn't work out.    
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Also there are legal consequences when you offer money (stated wrongly it can become a solicitation charge.)  
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So you'd really have to start out as a simple dating move and initially incorporate the sugar as gifts etc without a quid pro quo.  You could get into that later after the first successful dates.

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MDraft63 reads

I seem to remember that the best approach was to talk to the target about enjoying SPOILING your girlfriend, if only you had one...etc  - You get the idea

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