Attractive 28 yr old pot reached out to me, we chatted a bit, went off-line and arranged a first meet. She was open when I asked what she was looking for, 300 with bcd. Had very specific bills due for 275 and initially asked if rounding to 300 was ok, she did not want to high ball or push her luck which was a positive, unlike others who play coy to get outrageous rates. Took a chance and we had a really good time. She was even hotter in person, fun in a off-beat way, very open about her past, spent maybe 2 hours together over half of it was just chatting and drinking, felt comfortable with her, and if the fun got better on subsequent visits, could live with 300.

 
We had some misunderstandings about our second meet, she did not contact me back to a text. She may have confused me with another SD in her rotation. She made some comments that made it clear I was not her only SD, which is fine.  

 
Eventually we had a spur of the moment second meeting. She was even 7 minutes early.
We’ve been together for 60 minutes and bcd for about 20 of those when she asks: “I forgot to ask, are we doing the same as before?”  
Me: “I forgot, what did we do last time?”
SB: “$200”
Me: “Oh that’s right, yes of course.”

 
While there are pot’s and SB’s with GPS, there are still a few out there who are reasonable and may forget about different rates with different SD’s. Hope a few of you are also lucky enough to encounter this type of SB!

Call me old fashion, but if you did 300 the first time and then she forgot and thought it was 200 (did I read that right?) that puts you in the position of being dishonest if you agreed it was 200.  It's just me but injecting any dishonesty into the relationship is not a good idea.

LOL - hopefully she will remember you next time!
But it's nice to have a positive story on here - mostly negative this week.  

Yes, you are correct I was dishonest.  

 
However, I had also asked us to do more than bcd, which she she said she also wanted. She called again for a last minute meet last night shortly after I posted for bcd meet.  

 
As much fun as she is, she appears to be one of those SB's who will be hot and heavy for short-time then go silent. Maybe pop up again in a few months when she needs some extra help. I think she did lose a SD in her rotation and needs some quick cash near month end to pay her bills.

I must kick you a bit harder than Lester did, my friend.  
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You took advantage of her by not sticking with your agreement. That's at least bad karma. At worst, well, I'll stop short of calling it theft, but it casts you as an asshole when (not IF, when) she realizes what you did.   You were happy at $300, and then when she showed you that she is disorganized, not financially mature, and unsure of her confidence (in other words, a Sugar Baby) you denied her the sugar you had already agreed to pay.  
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The Sugar Bowl is built on trust, transparency, and mutual consent between adults. You violated at least two (and maybe all) of those aspects.  Why not say "Last time we agreed to $300, but I can only help with $200 today." Or "last time we did $300, and I'd love to keep it that way when we spend more time together, or if you want to stay for some steamy morning sex." She could have (and probably would have) agreed. Or she could have pushed back for $300 and you know you would have agreed, as you were already prepared to pay that amount.  Or you could have just said "We agreed on $300 and I'm still happy with that."  
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So congratulations! Your prediction that "she appears to be one of those SB's who will be hot and heavy for short-time then go silent" will now come true - because of your actions.  
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Take some time to think about what that $100 means to you - almost nothing. And think about the time and effort you will need to undertake to replace her, not to mention that your replacement may be looking for more than $300.
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Now think about what that $100 means to her. What (who) will she have to do to make up the extra cash to pay her rent, phone, gas, food bills? And how much would she have appreciated it if her generous, trustworthy, and considerate Daddy had made sure she did not lose out on that extra $100. That could have led to many, many more intense sessions with her where she willingly ups her sugar game for a Daddy who really (appears) to have her best interests in mind.  
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I would have gladly invested that $100 in her happiness, because...  
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Life is good.
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The Cat

I do understand where you are coming from HC and you are one of the trusted sources here.  

 
To be clear I am one who wants more than just BCD with my bowl arrangements. I was very clear to her about what I wanted before the first meeting. She replied that she wanted that as well. We agreed on a few activities as well as the gift.

 
However, from meet #1 she was clearly only looking for BCD, and did not have time available to do much more despite my asking her to enjoy some of the non-BCD activities. Yes, we did sit a chat a bit each meet, but chatting was not the extent of our agreed arrangement.  

 
So mutual dishonesty.  

 
She reached out yesterday – before I had read your reply today – again for a last second meet-up.  

In summary my reply to her was: while deleting old text’s when I noticed our original agreement was 300 and to also do these activities, we need to discuss and agree what our arrangement is. She came over and said she does not have time for doing everything else and that she’s OK with 200 per meet for BCD. I gave her 500. 200 for the prior two meets that were under our original agreement and 300 for her time only on this meet with NO BCD – my choice because that was the agreement, but also told her she needs to find another SD who is only looking for BCD.

 
I am an A-hole in many ways, I’m the first to point this out to people, but I also can realize when I need to make things right. I felt she was going to go the BCD only route and I made her whole – even though I did not feel whole based on our original arrangement. My karma is fine. And I do not wish any bad karma on her.  

 
P.S. She just texted as I was drafting this asking to meet for $200. I go back to my point that she’s one who will be hot and heavy for a short time because she just needs cash now and will be silent shortly after until she needs the cash again down the road. Some of you have likely experienced this same type of SB before. If all a SD wants is BCD, it can work out well. For SD’s that want more, these SB’s just limit our time to meet those SB's more aligned.

I’m with the majority on this one. If you had a discussion prior where you agreed to the $200, then it’s a complete go forth prosper and enjoy.  In this case, she specifically said “same as before (which unless I missed something was $300) and you played coy and she said $200 because she forgot. The way I would have played it is as soon as she said same as before, would of assumed the $300 and just enjoyed spending time with her. Doesn’t really matter that she forgot, you clearly didn’t. Even after she said the $200, I would have still politely said that’s it’s ok, I paid you $300 last time and was assuming the same. If at that point, she wants to stick with a lower number, great. As a general rule, whatever I agree with as the initial ppm, I will stick with unless one of two things happen. First, I am seeing her on a regular basis and decide to transition to a set on-going allowance.  Or two, the dynamics of the relationship fundamentally change (I.e. you start seeing her regularly and decide to start adding some travel, etc to the mix). In either of those cases, it would be perfectly normal to have a conversation around benefit levels. Other than that, honor the original amount. Just my two cents...

Glad you clarified that you had actually discussed and agreed to 300, then SHE balked.  
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I take back 95% of my ass kicking... :p
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There are indeed SB's who say they want the comprehensive sugar package with BCD + date like activities. Like you, that's my preference as an SD as well. But I find that maybe 1 out of 3 really mean it. And meetings quickly devolve into BCD hit & runs. Now those are certainly fun! But in my experience, those SB's are the ones who tend to fade away sooner rather than later. Maybe they find a better deal (or deals). Maybe they can only stomach fucking an old fat guy for so long. But if she doesn't enjoy the non-BCD hang time, she's not long for your rotation. I suppose that's because they never actually invest in making this a relationship, as opposed to a transaction.  Still, I have 3 or 4 of these who stay in touch just often enough to remain on my B list.  
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So, I guess she has now classified you as "SD Booty Call." Congratulations?  
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Life is good.
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The Cat

No need to take back anything HC. Despite a longer post I was not clear enough initially.