Too many male/female friendships are one-sided.  Basically if you aren't getting regular sex out of the deal, you are basically existing to constantly help some chick out -- with her having few talents or skills to return the favors.

Chicks tend to not have any useful 'bro' skills.  Maybe they are nurses or teachers.  They aren't going to help you re-roof your house, pour a concrete driveway or carry a dresser up two flights of stairs.  But you can bet they'd be calling you to do that for them.

Too many guys slip into the friendzone and become worker bees to the queen bee who has no intention of any sexual contact.  Fly away, my friend.

Don't slip into old habits in the sugar bowl.  We're paying for sex, and getting sex.  In "friendships" we end up paying but getting nothing in return.  Don't cross the streams.

I disagree, at least in my own experience. I think that most SBs are definitely into the sex. I don't expect them to become construction workers too or "bros" in any other sense. That is not why I want to see her. However, the clothes come off very quickly we when are both in the hotel room, perhaps with a visit to the bathroom if costumes are involved. Also, we like each other in spite of the age and ethnic differences. We both enjoy restaurants (back in the day and hopefully soon) and being out in nature.  

Yes, they aren't going to be good for carrying a dresser up stairs. My GF is about half of my size, so it would be a serious injury or possibly death risk for her. However, I have adult boys for that. If she needs help beyond me, we could hire it. The one time that it was an issue, she declined my offer of help because some of the gals from her country that she shares a house with were overstaying their visas and didn't an American man in their place. She is on the way to her nursing degree though; I am looking forward to any new skills that she picks up or at least a new (real) costume.

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I have had a LOT of female friends over the yeas, many of them, but hardly all of them hookers.

 
I don't know how you got the "kick me" sign plastered on the back of your shirt,  but my female friends carry their own weight just like my male friends.

 
For the record I am not going to pour a driveway, re-roof your house either, I 'might" help you carry a dresser up a couple of flights of stars though if you bribe me with  beer, or better yet, tequila, but I would suggest that if you make it tequila, you should probably give it to me AFTER we are done moving your dresser, not before. That is if you value your dresser of course. lol

One gal I know has offered to help me to chores around the house.  She's very handy and likes to do them.   I talking about cleaning windows and minor repairs, etc.

 
Now, I know that is not common, but here genuine kindness in offering is the point.   Other gals have helped me when I was sick, or otherwise needed a friend, and that's what we're talking about.

 
I've no qualm with those who think like you, but don't assume it is universal.   It isn't.

Don't know how or why you became so bitter and I won't psychoanalyze without knowing you, but couldn't disagree with you more. Maybe you are talking about sugar relationships alone and in that there are always going to be highs and lows. In fact, in any human relationship there are high and lows. You and your loyal dog will have high and lows, for that matter.

But it seems all you see in women is sex. I value most of them for more than that. In general, I LIKE women and enjoy their company on all levels. And that is one reason I enjoy sugar over the pro market. Sure, some are bitches and some are boring, but most deserve my respect. I may not have sex with all of them and certainly I don't pay anything to most of them, but they bring something to the table, as I do to them, I believe.

What happened? Did you have some civvie blowup? Or conversely did a SB do you raw?

Some guys are desperate for a real GF but don't have to social skills to get one. So they happily pay for companionship and will do so even if there's no sex. This is true of certain hookers as well. A friend dated one lady for a while who told him many of her regulars paid her for companionship and no sex. I had a hooker friend I paid for sex who also had a sugar daddy who gave her money even when she withheld sex. She used to actually laugh at the guy, even after I'd just fucked her and she was off to have dinner with him. Go figya.
Wake up and smell the coffee, Fester.

She seems like a sweetheart. I hope that you keep her close. Is she cozying up to you in the hope of getting a ring or just a sweet person who thinks that your house is a mess and needs a woman's attention?

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Can you provide a referral? I've got a pipe that needs a good cleaning out.  

but as it turns out, she is retired, but still seeing certain clients such as myself.

 
Otherwise I would name her.