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Re: Elusive Orgasm Question...
QualityGuy 7009 reads
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I'm not sure if my experience was the same as yours, but I've had two orgasms that I considered far above all the rest.  They were characterized by prolonged ejacuation -- perhaps three or four times as long as I normally shoot, maybe even more.

The first time, of all things, was in a lap dance joint.  A very pretty young thing came and sat on my lap, sideways, and looked into my eyes as she ground into my crotch.  Of course, this was after a number of others had come by and "warmed me up."

The second time was with SedonaSanDiego, an wonderful provider who used to frequent these boards and who is now retired. We had a two hour date that started very slowly and had long, long foreplay.  When we got to the main event, she was doing CG, and I started to cum...and I came and came and came....

Those two experiences were at least 15 years apart.  What ties them together is that both involved long, extended foreplay.  I've tried to replicate the experience, and while I've had some doozies by playing tease and denial on myself (with a partner), nothing has quite reached those peaks.

notsofast8397 reads

Once upon a time, a few years ago, I was with a provider who may or may not have been responsible for the most dramatic and mind bending orgasms that I have ever experienced. I have been trying to duplicate this elusive orgasm ever since and have not come close.

We were in Mish after some very intense foreplay, about twenty minutes into the session (which I knew would include a second cup, which did not match the first), and when I came it was like a porn cumshot, I felt spurt after spurt, like a firehose into the cover...At 40 years old that stands out among ALL others as the climax of all climaxes thats I remember and which all others are judged.

So, the question is, was this a one-shot-wonder? Where all the stars aligned? Was it just another orgasm that just happened to feel 'right' for some unexplained reason or was that the night that I happened to hit the Splooge Lottery and will never be there again?

BTW, I never saw that provider again, and have never attributed this pheonomenon to her, even though that was one great session.

Has this happened to anyone else? I'm chasing that feeling, not like a crackhead needing a fix, but I sure would like to find that state of mind again...

NSF

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Love Goddess5382 reads

For whatever reason, notsofast,
You had that ultimate mindbending O..congratulations!

Many men state that their second orgasm often is more intense than their first. Oftentimes this can happen when the first ejaculation is less intense in its orgasmic quality; there may be ejaculate aplenty, but the tension and the release may be weak, from a systemic point of view. The second time around, there may be less ejaculatory fluid or even a "dry" orgasm but the body gets a much deeper release. This is normal.

If you want to go for it again, I'd suggest getting together with someone very sexy and energetic and have your first orgasm pretty quickly. In other words, don't prolong or resist or work yourself up, just let it go fairly quickly. For the second time around, get some intense BJ action [don't tire yourself out w/ DATY, just lie there and get serviced] and then see what happens, either coitally or oral-receptively. But the lady has to be very patient and persistent, with intensity to match...

Have fun experimenting,
the Love Goddess

-- Modified on 11/14/2007 10:21:04 PM

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QualityGuy7010 reads

I'm not sure if my experience was the same as yours, but I've had two orgasms that I considered far above all the rest.  They were characterized by prolonged ejacuation -- perhaps three or four times as long as I normally shoot, maybe even more.

The first time, of all things, was in a lap dance joint.  A very pretty young thing came and sat on my lap, sideways, and looked into my eyes as she ground into my crotch.  Of course, this was after a number of others had come by and "warmed me up."

The second time was with SedonaSanDiego, an wonderful provider who used to frequent these boards and who is now retired. We had a two hour date that started very slowly and had long, long foreplay.  When we got to the main event, she was doing CG, and I started to cum...and I came and came and came....

Those two experiences were at least 15 years apart.  What ties them together is that both involved long, extended foreplay.  I've tried to replicate the experience, and while I've had some doozies by playing tease and denial on myself (with a partner), nothing has quite reached those peaks.

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Bostonguy577183 reads

I'm having the most explosive orgasms of my life right now at age 50 and on Viagra. I think it is related very directly to extended foreplay with a woman who drives me absolutely crazy from the moment she answers the door to her in call location.
FWIW, I ejaculate as the climax to a nearly two hour session of mutual oral gratification.

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Kornlover8061 reads

I never thought about it until the topic was raised here, but my most intense, and certainly my most memorable orgasms, were with my wife--but not with her today, but many years ago.  

As I started to think why, I was not sure.  Certainly the fact that I was much younger at the time, and did not cheat for about 25 years may be part of the explanation because as a matter of fact I was 25 years older before any woman got a chance to rock my boat that way.   Also, I was deeply in love back then, and that might have added to it.

THat is not to say that I have not had intensive sexual experiences with providers--of course I have.   But not the kind of mind-blowing orgasms that are memorable and out of the ordinary.

Or maybe I am just odd.

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mrfisher5774 reads

I just never know before hand when that big pay out is coming; but I love it when it does.

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channelguy7395 reads

I too have had the most intense cums with my current wife - of course that was about 20 years ago.  But she could regularly rock my boat bit time.   One time she gave me a BJ for about 30 minutes and held me off a lot.  She enjoyed doing it.  Man o man I would shoot like the space shuttle.  I wish she'd do that again....I miss her being so involved.  I'd give up the hobby in a flash.  :-(

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baldy698490 reads

Most intense when the wife is going down on me with a finger in the ass... wow MIND BLOWING is not the word... after I orgasmed she kept going and it felt like the head of my dick was going to explode and look like a firecracker in a cartoon, I finally had to push her away!!!!!

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