Why do you think a video of your M&G could be used against you?  I certainly don't care if friends or family know I'm chatting up young women for dates. There's nothing illegal about it as long as you are careful about not crossing the sex for money line.  and my wife knows I'm on SA and gives me permission.  So I don't see any problem.

at least not worried about paying it.  But yeah releasing sex talk is generally embarrassing no matter who you are.  And obviously if you are in any sort of relationship where you are sneaking around ... big trouble.

I have ZERO intention of doing video chat in lieu of an actual face to face meeting, but potential blackmail is hardly a factor. It's hardly illegal and I don't care who knows that I like younger women. EVERYBODY already knows I am a pig, it would be like having PROOF that Trump has fucked around in his life, Everyone already knows, and in my case at least, NOBODY cares, and even if they do/did care, why should I give a fuck about how people feel about the women I choose to be with?  

 
IMHO people who can be blackmailed are people who are ashamed of their own behavior, I don't do a thing I am ashamed of doing which makes me pretty much blackmail proof.

I have, and will continue to decline invites for video M&G's because if such a video ever leaked, it would be professionally and personally disastrous.  The fact that I like fucking young hotties (and older hotties as well) is not known and having my wife, neighbors, colleagues, church members, country club friends, etc...discover this matters a tremendous amount to me.

I've actually had a SB try and blackmail me over my private picture on SA.  I told her "No!", reported and blocked her and moved on.  My 1 picture on SA gives me plausible deniability.  Not so much with a video.  

However, I do agree that there will likely be a time in my life that I wouldn't care if 'discovered'.  Just not at that point right now.