Yesterday I got a message from a sweet, 25 year old brunette in my area. She made some nice comments about my profile, and suggested we should  connect.  All sounded good. Her pics show as non-professional but good quality in a different everyday places and her message was well written, articulate, and free of acronyms and slang. I quickly reversed image searched her pics and got a match for a local woman who matched location, age and height - so little chance of a catfish. I was intrigued.  

 
So I wrote back, made some charming comments and a few subtle humorous remarks. She replied that she "likes me already." I gave her my phone number and asked her to text me later that evening (I had an online meeting just about to start).  She sent me a text at the requested time and BAM .... there was already a log of previous text messages from March, 2018 on my phone! We had briefly connected then and quickly got to an acceptable allowance agreement. But the show stopped when I brought up sharing test results. She correctly inferred that I was looking for mutual, recent tests to accommodate at least some bare activity like BBBJ and possibly BBFS (of course I did not use those terms with her). That's when she stopped replying. I sent her one last text apologizing if I had offended her and saying I understand if she wants to move on.  

 
Cut back to last night. I quickly re-read the previous text string. Then I googled her phone and it matched to the same name/person as her pics. I even got her home address from my search, which aligned with the location she gave me in the site message system.  I sent her a text asking if she'd had this number for a while as I thought it "looked familiar."  She gave me a LOL and said she had. I was expecting that question from me to trigger her memory, which would lead to an immediate reaction and a hearty "FUCK OFF" from her. That did not happen.  So I ran with it, but used a slower roll this time.  

 
We chatted about schedules and possibly using facetime or just a M&G in public if a location could be found during the renewed lock down in Los Angeles. I found a park that would work and gave her a day, time and location. She agreed.  Then I spent the next few hours looking at her IG posts (25k followers), her adult-themed YouTube channel vids (2,500 subscribers) and checking out her OnlyFans page with she says has much explicit content (I did not subscribe - yet).  She is not a pro porn actress; no agent, no vids on PornHub, etc. But I think she is an aspiring actress who did two IMDb-Credited films in 2018-2019 and has nothing since.  So I think she created the OF page to make money, but it's probably not enough to meet all her needs.  I shall endeavor to find out later this week.  

 
So the question is:  Have you seen this in your area?  A text from a POT you spoke with but never met a long time ago? Actually, this is probably the 5th time I've seen an old set of text messages when I get a new text. Always a POT with a new(er) profile and I suspect she's moved onto to new phone so lost her "old" text message log.  

I will file this as a sub-folder under the "Never burn bridges" topic.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

and it's one of the reasons I rarely delete any SB's or even POT SB's from my contacts. I want to remember the good ones and be alerted to the BSC ones.

I don't think I've ever had quite the experience you describe.  I've had former SBs I was active with return sometimes years later who wanted to reconnect with me.  And I've often seen "new" profiles of SBs I've recognized and previously conversed with, again, sometimes years later,  who remembered our previous conversation and were happy to pick up the thread again. But I can't recall being approached by one who forgot that she had talked to me previously. I look forward to hearing how this one plays out!

A few weeks ago messaged an attractive SB.  We hit it off on the platform, moved to text and set up a M&G.  She strongly intimated that we should allow ample time following lunch to hang out if things went well.  

So we meet for lunch last Friday afternoon.  Ten minutes into the conversation, I realize that I think we've met before.  When I asked, she had a hearty laugh and told me all about our previous M&G 2 years ago and recalled many details about our conversation.  She new the entire time. Remembered that I also met another SB at that time and proceeded in an arrangement with her.  We enjoyed catching up (she just broke up with her SD of 2 years who wanted to marry her) and then had a wonderful BCD's session.

Yes, she had a new SB name and profile, but the same pictures.  I am using a different mode of contact now than previously so could not have matched her phone number.  And I am guilty of not remembering her until 10 minutes into lunch conversation.

Also filed under "Always be a gentleman"

Thanks for sharing that story.  What an interesting place is the Sugar Bowl!  

 
Since I always do a reverse image search on profile pics (Google and Bing), I have also kept all the downloaded pics in an archive, sorted by year, month and Profile name.  I also attach one of those pics to her contact in my phone if I get a number or email address.  It's been mostly useful to spot cat fishers who create new profiles every few weeks or months. If I see a pic that looks familiar, I can scan my archive to see why.  But it's always interesting to get a text and see that prior chat log pop up!  

 
What I take from this is that perhaps SB's get so many POT SD contacts, they simply can't/don't remember all of them.  So when they see a profile they like (probably just seeing the annual income and net worth, LOL), they just go for it. I also speculate that the pros and semi-pros do this more, as they are just throwing out a wide net on recent actives in the area to see how many fish they can catch. It's the old school version of cold calling to get new customers. Knock on enough (virtual) doors and eventually some will open.  

 
And you are correct: Always be a gentleman, never burn bridges. The M&G I'm having this afternoon would not be happening if I'd been a dick to her when she stopped communicating. I'll try to figure out if she actually remembers our original discussion from March of 2018. About half of my pics from that time are still on my profile. If it looks like she does not, I'll have to carefully decide if I want to mention it, as well as if I want to mention that I already know her public persona from YouTube, IG and OG.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat