it will give you a "broom stick" dick and you will be able to penetrate without any problems.

Well, plaindudeny,

Despite the high success rate of ED medications, I wouldn't be so cavalier with taking Viagra or ED meds until finding out more about your issue and your health. Are you taking blood pressure or diabetes meds? Those can surely play havoc with erections.

In any case, since you seem willing and wanting to penetrate your wife, I'm not sure this is a psychological issue. Best go see a licensed physician for a workup and a med check. If s/he feels there are no contraindications - and please, do NOT buy meds off the Internet on your own - then maybe you'll get a prescription. But be warned - ED meds are not for everyone.

Doc first, please,
the Love Goddess

Have you tried some K-Y jelly?

Have you penetrated her before?  Is your cock as hard now as it was when you were able to in the past?  We're talking vaginal not anal, correct?  Is your wife willing?  

Lots of questions, but important ones.  I assume that your post is not tongue-in-cheek but it sounds like you might have a sarcastic side to your post (sorry if I'm cold and unempathetic here-its just a thought).  You want to place your "seed" in her to start a family obviously.  I don't know a lot of men who talk about "placing their seed in her" in this day and age, it sounds a bit Victorian.  But, nevertheless...

See a doctor, try a personal lubricant, seduce your wife, etc.  But if you're already hard and this post is true, something else is going on and my questions above are a start.

This could be an issue with your wife's ability to let you penetrate her.  In that case she should see a doctor.  There is a condition called vaginismus that makes penetration impossible and it is something that can be treated.  Its usually treated by a therapist that does sex therapy, not by an M.D. but she should be examined first by a gynecologist.  The gynecologist can make a referral to the appropriate therapist if necessary.

Good luck


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How BIG is it?

Let's start there.  I assume it's long enough to do the job in the first place?

If it's getting errect but not hard enough to enter without folding over or just slipping out, then depending on other factors Viagra, etc. might help.  But like LG said see a doctor first.  Also as someone said more lube might help.

Test it with a provider - if it gets hard with her and not your wife then you know the problem.

And if it's size... well you're screwed sweetie...

Giggle,
TS Jamie