Last night I had my first BCD date with a smoking hot, barely legal, slim, pretty, kinky as hell girl who totally wore me out in the sack.  Wow, this is one for the record books.  She's just 2 months past her 18th bd and came fully prepared with wrist and ankle cuffs, ropes, vibrator, etc all of which we made good use of.  She wore a super hot little schoolgirl outfit, was dripping wet, incredibly responsive, had those continuous full body shuddering Os, seemed to love everything I did and coulda gone on way past the 2 hours we spent in bed.  Damn!  

She never mentioned money, not even once.  Not during the getting to know you message exchange, the nude picture texts, the meeting and exchanging of IDs and test results, the talk about safety, consent, boundaries, safe words, not a hint about what her financial expectations were.  So all I had to go on was what I read in her profile.

She wrote that her parents would not allow her to get a job while she was in college, she has no money and would appreciate some gifts.  But she also wrote she was not interested in a pay per date or anything like that.  Mixed message?  GPS?  Hard to know.  But even when we were getting dressed, chatting, getting ready to take her home, not a word about money or gifts. I honestly think I could have ended the date without giving her anything, but I would have felt crappy even trying that.  So I felt I should take the lead.

I reminded her about what she'd written in her profile and asked what she meant about the pay per date comment. She said she didn't want to feel like an escort.  Of course I assured her that escorting was totally different from what we were doing.  An escort would never hang out and chat and get to know a client, or exchange lots of messages and texts.  With an escort you pay for the hour and then you are outa there. Totally transactional.   I love sugar dating so much because we are NOT doing that, we're becoming friends who care about each other. I'd feel privileged to give her some gifts, one friend to another, a token of my esteem and not payment for anything.  She agreed. (I also asked her if suddenly having money would make her family suspicious and she said yes, she'd have to be discreet about it.)

So I gave her 3 fifties which she seemed delighted with.  My point of course is that the sugar exchange is crucial to defining the nature of the relationship.  If there'd been no sex, or if there'd been no $$ugar, the arrangement would  have been equally invalid. So I was able to establish things on terms we were both happy with.  Also, just because a SB says "no ppm" does not mean she won't accept it happily if you spin it in a way she likes.

After a few more of these dates, it might be time to see how well she lines up to the established Unicorn Criteria.  
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We haven't talked about Unicorns in a while, but you may have a contender for the 2020 Summer Unicorn Award!  
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Life is good.
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The Cat
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PS: ask her if she has an 18+ sister or cousin in LA, please!

Congrats. I true testament to why we love the bowl. Sounds like you have a definitely keeper and agree with HC that sounds like you definitely have a finalist for Unicorn of the Year.  

I’ll one up HC and let you know if she does have that 18+ cousin, let me know. I travel so she doesn’t even have to be in LA.....

Thanks guys, I do think this one is a contender for Unicorn status!  Herb, I searched for Unicorn Criteria on the archives and found your 8 Point guidelines from 3 years ago.  You should update it, repost it, and start a new thread!  This particular SB might well qualify for Unicorn of the Year.  Here's a few other facts that make her worth considering:
1. She is excellent about communicating.  Always replies to my texts right away.  Even if the text does not require a reply she'll send an emoji to confirm she received it.  Gotta love that!

2.  I don't know if she has siblings, but she says she's truly bi.  So maybe she will have a friend to bring along.

3. Covid safety has to be a Unicorn criterion for sure.  She's a full time care giver for her vulnerable grandma, and has had zero contact with friends or any other men for months. She says I'm only the 3rd man she's been with and the last one was 4 months ago! And she plans on being exclusive with me for the present time.

4. She's had an IUD for a year and is totally cool with BB!  So that's how we went.  I haven't gone BB with a SB in years.  

5. She says she loves Greek, so maybe next time we'll give that a try.

6. She's also VERY smart. Did well in HS and earned a second from the top academic scholarship to her university.  She'll get $40k/yr as long as she keeps her GPA above 3.5 which she is determined to do.7

7. Before our first meeting she asked which outfit she should wear: schoolgirl, clubbing outfit, maid, sexy white angel with wings?  I chose sexy schoolgirl.  Can't wait to see the others!

8. She did not want or seem to need a preliminary m&G.  We went straight from texting to BCD and it was smooth and seamless.

Reading over your original 8 point Unicorn Criteria she does hit the mark on all except the road trip item and bringing a friend.  So she's a contender indeed.  I'd also add that a true Unicorn will be available whenever you need her, and that remains to be seen.  This is my favorite universe by far!

But if true - congrats my friend!  I would normally be jealous, but it seems a forgotten 20 yo is coming bye tonight with equal athletic skills, so I can appreciate!

If it was anyone else, I would call Bullshit on the story.  However, I've chatted and shared comments with Sweetman and always felt he was genuine.  

Thanks, I'd be skeptical too.  I just re-read my posts on this thread and barely believe it myself!  I'm old, maybe senile, maybe I had a 60s acid flashback and hallucinated the whole thing.  But I swear it's all true and next time I see her I'm gonna take pictures.  Which she said would be fine!  Another Unicorn-like attribute!

Um.. is that "60's" as in the 1960's, or "60's" as in when you were 60-ish years old. :p  
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Regarding travel criteria, it's probably not realistic to test that in any detail while travelling is generally not safe. But perhaps down the road (no pun intended...).  
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While you were typing your latest replies, I was enjoying my latest SB acquisition. She will be 22 on 10/10 (so I naturally told her she's a 10 out of 10!), 106 lbs, perky everything Latina who attends the nearby university.  
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This was our second date and I decided to up my Daddy-sex game by adding spanking her ass and tits, light choking, telling her that Daddy was going to fuck her mouth and hold her dead down as punishment for being naughty.. all this after I spent 30+ minutes downtown and listening to her gasp, moan, and pant as I delivered on my promise to make her feel good. After a good long time of BB everything (she's got an IUD as well), she told me to force my cum down her throat after I started to hold her head down... She took it all and left no protein around afterwards. While we were cuddling I asked her (again) if the rough play was ok with her. She said  she thought it was hot and really liked it. That gave me all the motivation I needed to head back downtown and give her several more O's.  
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Having said THAT, here's the amazing part:  I gave her the agreed allowance, but I added a $100 Sephora gift card. She had told me last time that she was trying to pay off a few cards and her Sephora was almost paid. Just $120 to go.  She looked at the card and I was surprised that she did not seem pleased.  After talking a bit more she told me she's uncomfortable getting gifts in excess of what she needs. So - she gave it back!  
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I will save it for now. Perhaps after the lockdowns in LA pass I will take her shopping at the mall to Sephora (her favorite  makeup store) and Victoria's Secret and use the card then. Or maybe I'll just give it to another SB.  
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We will meet up again in about 2 weeks. Topics (and possible Unicorn criteria) yet to be discussed include her sexual preferences for men & women, which could lead to which, if any, of her three female roommates (also college students) or other friends might be interested, and we can start planning a September (I hope!) day-trip or overnight to Santa Barbara for her 1st Wine Tasting adventure.  
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Meanwhile, my #1 SB treated me to BCD w/o allowance (she specifically told me she did not want any for this visit) last week. She brought her A game, dressed up in a see-through Sailor Cosplay uniform and told me she refused to let me cum anywhere but her mouth. The sight of her in that costume, plus her blond hair in pig tails bobbing up and down was just amazing... Because...  
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The Cat

Haha, good catch Herb. I did mean back in the 1960s.  When I think back on my activities in the 60s I wonder sometimes why I have any semi functional brain cells left.

Your lovely little latina sounds charming indeed!  I think we have some real valid candidates in the running for Unicorn status this summer. And both of your recent dates are on a protein diet, gotta love that! My date surprised me in that regard as well. After I popped she started scooping up the leftovers with her fingers and licking them, then licking me clean.  

I've got a reunion with a previous number one SB planned for this afternoon, so gotta run!