It just boggles my mind.  

 
She posts pics that don't make sense in the context of a "dating" (wink) site.  

 
1.  Confusing: Two people, who look similar - same race, maybe 5'4", slim, long brown hair, dressed in long gowns in a dimly lit bar. Who the fuck am I looking at? Which one is the POT? Are they both in the game? Did the POT get permission to post her besties' hot (maybe hotter than her!) bod on the site? Should I ask if they come (pun intended) as a set? Twice the babes for double the price?  

 
2. Showing her future self:  A hot babe AND her mother... a 30 year older, 40 pound heavier, and significantly wrinkled version of her future self. Sorry, not sorry! Not a good idea. I absolutely do not want to bang your mom.  

 
3. Hiding something: Just too dark or unfocused to be useful.  Ok so you have been "somewhere" with other people in the background, doing something. Is that your cleavage, or are you holding a dog?  

 
4. Only chin-up, close-up face shots. In other words, you are fat and trying to hide behind your cute (from a certain angle) face.  We've all been through that M&G when you show up with 40+ more pounds on your belly and ass than you claimed. Just be you, there are plenty of guys who dig the plumper gals. They're called "Chubby Chasers" for a reason.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I hear you...sometimes it amazes me how clueless or low-effort some people are. But then I'm reminded that one-half of the population has an IQ under 100..."there's no cure for lazy or stupid."

Since we're in LA the waters are relatively deep and well-stocked so I don't get as irritated as I used to.

I've had exactly the same thoughts.  Esp #4, only face shots.  If the face is actually pretty enough, and her height/weight numbers are in range, I'll still DM her.  But I will def ask for more pics, specifically full length shots in close fitting clothing that shows what she actually looks like.  I'll point out that I have pics on my own profile that leave no one questioning my looks or body type and I'm only asking for the same.

"bare midriff"  
I don't fuss much what's attached to it.
But it better be slim and tight.