So I have been seeing two other SBs that are closer to me. Decided to message this 18 year old girl on SA without seeing a close-up of her face. Was able to receive a response back and was blown away by her pic that she later texted me. Setup a date for Wednesday but she cancelled due to doctor appointment. Was able to reschedule for today. Drive is quote the distance however. About 3 hours.
Picked her up at her college dorm, went to a local restaurant for dinner, then was able to score and bring her back to hotel. Settled on a $500 allowance for meet. Was absolutely worth it. She's a 10 in my book! The problem I'm having is I'm not sure if she will continue to see me. I originally was talking about a $3,000 monthly allowance that we can possibly start in 2017, but had a few things come up. Originally she seemed reluctant to see me. She was chatting with me and seemed to have a change of heart next day. I noticed she closed account on SA. Later found out she met with a SD prior to meeting with me, and he offered her $800 per meet. He made a rule with her, that she could not see any other guys from site. We seemed to have a good time, but not sure if she will continue wanting to see me, when she has another SD who is willing to give her $800. She apparently did not have a full date with him yet, just me. Just not sure how she would take it, if I cannot follow through with monthly allowance. Totally willing to ditch all SBs for this one. She's absolutely perfect in my book.and tell the other SBs that you have a financial situation that might take a month to sort out and can't see them during that time.
I can tell you if the girl is that hot she will get people to pay her more than $500 per visit and she'll be lost to you. But the guys won't stay with her long too as filthy rich guys can always the newest and hottest to pick from. May be you can tell her that and she'll stick with you. 
If the connection is good, she might well see you on the side. The rich SD wants BBFS that's why the exclusivity. You should wear a condom. I had a prior SB that was hot. Guys would fly her to Florida for the weekend. She saw me locally for 350, said she liked having sex with me! Lol. I'm such a stud! Haha. I have also had a SB who had a BF and still saw me. He was a jerk and she dumped him after a while. With that girl, I outlasted 2 boyfriends.
OP: you are not significantly behind this other "whale" SD as I always had thought that 500 per meet is an extremely respectable "allowance". No if you were at 200-300 per, I'd suggest that you cut your losses, fold your hand and go BUT that is not the case! The 800 Daddy may be laying a trap of sorts to capture this SB but he could easily start p*ssing back on that agreement after a couple of times specially if (as someone had already mentioned this) he plows her BB style a couple of times. I have yet to lose any SB when my allowance has been 500 and I feel that number to be the goldie lock zone unless the SB feels that she's a 10+++ and her min is at 1000 (adios!).
In summary, sit back and wait for her to come back to you without raising the stakes because once you do that, you will definitely lose her as soon as you indicate your desire for renegotiating and readjustment. The 3K+ per month daddies do not last that long and those who truly can afford to gift that sort of sum each month, very rarely stick to one girl beyond a moth or so unless they are completely supplicating doormats. Those exist too!
Agree to not fold, there is this SB I met who told me that 800 per meet is her rate and I told her that best I can do is 400 and she still texts me now and then and actually willing to see me, she wants to show me that she is worth more, lol. So 500 is actually very respectable in this game, I offer 2K max for monthly arrangements and 200-400 per meet when the SB is hot.
Thanks for support guys!
If you don't you willregret what might have been. If it can't last due to loss of interest or financial incompatibility at least you will have the satisfaction of having tried and enjoyed her for a while. I know this because I recently had a first bcd date with a young SB who has so profoundly captured my imagination that I'm willing to get into an arrangement with her that is way outside my comfort zone before some other dude takes her.
So, question #1: how did you find out she has another SD offering her $800/meet?
It's somewhat rhetorical. I presume she told you. Which is why I'll go back to my rule #1 for sugar dating: Never believe what a SB says. You usually don't have to (other than coordinating plans), and it serves no purpose other than self-defeat.
Picked her up at her college dorm, went to a local restaurant for dinner, then was able to score and bring her back to hotel. Settled on a $500 allowance for meet. Was absolutely worth it. She's a 10 in my book!
The problem I'm having is I'm not sure if she will continue to see me. I originally was talking about a $3,000 monthly allowance that we can possibly start in 2017, but had a few things come up. Originally she seemed reluctant to see me. She was chatting with me and seemed to have a change of heart next day. I noticed she closed account on SA. Later found out she met with a SD prior to meeting with me, and he offered her $800 per meet. He made a rule with her, that she could not see any other guys from site.
We seemed to have a good time, but not sure if she will continue wanting to see me, when she has another SD who is willing to give her $800. She apparently did not have a full date with him yet, just me. Just not sure how she would take it, if I cannot follow through with monthly allowance.
Totally willing to ditch all SBs for this one. She's absolutely perfect in my book.
I had a POT SB that I met for dinner a couple of weeks ago. We had a nice M&G type date, did not got directly home together, but agreed to hook up in a couple of hours. She texted me, claiming she had a guy willing to give her $850 for a date that same night. I wished her well. Twenty minutes later she texted me back with an offer of $450 to which I responded "three hundred" Do I really need to tell you the ending to my story? lol
Here is my deal. I will see them on my terms. If they say no. Fine. Goid luck finding a guy that cab and will pay. IMO there are pervs like us but most are too whipped or timid to actually contact a young lady. Just sayin. It's a numbers game.
This was a prior conversation:
Her: Ok, I'm just conflicted because I met someone else who made a pretty enticing offer under the expectations I don't see anyone else. The appointment is true but also debating that
The guy that doesn't want me seeing other guys offered me 800. And I know that's a little high but makes it hard to want to do 5
It's somewhat rhetorical. I presume she told you. Which is why I'll go back to my rule #1 for sugar dating: Never believe what a SB says. You usually don't have to (other than coordinating plans), and it serves no purpose other than self-defeat.
Picked her up at her college dorm, went to a local restaurant for dinner, then was able to score and bring her back to hotel. Settled on a $500 allowance for meet. Was absolutely worth it. She's a 10 in my book!
The problem I'm having is I'm not sure if she will continue to see me. I originally was talking about a $3,000 monthly allowance that we can possibly start in 2017, but had a few things come up. Originally she seemed reluctant to see me. She was chatting with me and seemed to have a change of heart next day. I noticed she closed account on SA. Later found out she met with a SD prior to meeting with me, and he offered her $800 per meet. He made a rule with her, that she could not see any other guys from site.
We seemed to have a good time, but not sure if she will continue wanting to see me, when she has another SD who is willing to give her $800. She apparently did not have a full date with him yet, just me. Just not sure how she would take it, if I cannot follow through with monthly allowance.
Totally willing to ditch all SBs for this one. She's absolutely perfect in my book.
I would echo the other guys advice and try to keep the door open with her and reach out to her every month or so to see where her heads at. Tell her that you understand where she's coming from but that the guy may tire or get bored of her quickly if he's able to just throw money at whatever he wants. DO NOT try to match at 800. You may lose her for a month or two, but by the new year, maybe they will be sick of each other and the fact that you stayed in contact with her and still want to see her at 500 could still go a long way. GL!
Yeah 800 seems to be pushing it and I she already accepted the 500 allowance. Don't want to take it any higher.
Have you ever met a SB or escort that makes love to you and not just good sex. She makes me feel like she really loves me. Texts phone calls. The whole nine yards. I'm 45 yrs. older than she is. I have found one and wow does she know what a man wants. No competition or boyfriend. 250 and I give 300. Trying to get her finances straight so it's running around 500 a visit but will settle down to 300 . Light bills. car title pawn, rent behind, needs some basic furniture, etc. . You think I'm a fool but it's worth it she is that good. Pretty Spinner, 110 lbs. C cup. Rubs those breasts on you while she is grinding you, and making out all the while. I am getting pussy whipped. Was going to look for another one but might just go 2 times a week. Gave up a 24 yr old for distance and cost. Have another older one that can travel and drives 2 hrs. to me . She is good but not like this one. That will give me 2 for 2400 a month.
Yes, I have had precisely that great good luck, but based on my experience, be careful. If you really think the messed up finances will improve, and that's important to continuing, you may be in for a hard landing. Because chances are there are more money problems out there you don't know about yet, and she will want help with those. Unless she has a good job with good benefits, she will never catch up, and you will be financing more, not less. Not saying it won't be worth it, because in my case it has been very much so, but it has also been expensive.
She is no longer $250 and you give $300. You and her have mutually set the bar at $500 and that is where it's going to stay, unless of course it goes up even a bit more.
I am not criticizing you, or questioning whether or not she is "worth it" or not, just that "allowances" are like a ratchet, they only ratchet in one direction and with an SB that direction is "UP"
At least you used the words "she makes me FEEL like she really loves me" not that you believe she is actually in love. Keep that thought in mind and continue to enjoy yourself with her, but don't try to fool yourself into believing she will EVER work through her financial problems
If you can afford the four grand a month she is costing you. by all means keep seeing her. I am sure you are getting a LOT more value than seeing two $500 hr hookers each week, I don't know where you are getting this $2400 a month, because twice a week at $500 is $4,300 per month, unless you put your foot down and tell her that if you are gong to be seeing her twice a week $300 is your limit per visit. Do it now or this ship will sail and your rate will NEVER be lower than $500 again.