I recently saw a provider and had a great time. She gave me an awesome BBBJCIM. At the end of the session, she said to me "I never ask you to write a review but if I were going to make one, please don't mention that I did the BBBJ CIM." I asked her why and her reply was "well, I don't do that for everyone. Some guys aren't clean down there and also I don't simply want to do it for some people. I would like to be able to select guys for that service so please don't mention it...".

Well, TER is a great place to learn service, attitude, etc. and I very much appreciate what all the members share here.

Should I comply with her wish or should I disclose what I got in my review? HELP!!

YMMV is the first rule of all relationships.  We are not a consumer research organization.  We are a group learned from our respective experiences. I can imagine any good coming from telling and I can see an awful lot of bad.

I would never relate experiences in a review that did not happen, but you don't have to relate everything that does happen.

I think you should count your blessing and honor her wish....it's only fair that on such a personal matter it should be left to her discretion.
just my .02

Dear realLIFE,
Count your blessings and seal your lips, please. This lovely lady found you special and gave you a precious gift. Do not squander it (or her trust) by betraying her. Nothing good will come out of it. What you can say in your review is that you had "a great time" and give her the appropriate score for what she did. She would probably appreciate it very much. And of course, go see her again, unless your genes prompt you to pollinate another little flower soon thereafter. But I'd treasure that BBBJTCIM for all its worth! She has made you special!

so, I would not post it... especially if requested to not do so.  sometimes it just goes like that!

I think you're lying, first of all do you realize how many diseases... forget it. LIFE OR DEATH BABY
gotta be a liar

I've been tested many times and never had anything. The worst thing that's happened is getting it in my eye. That hurts!

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I mean, really!  Let's say you do disclose it.  Then every smelly, hairy hobbyist is gonna jack her up for it.  Then, she traces the roll-over on you.  Then she 86's you.  And then there you are, no bbbj, much less cim.

Or maybe, it's all a part of her gfe routine.  You know, to make you feel special and to keep you coming back to her.

Regardless, a real man keeps his word and makes good on his promises.

Funny, when I was young... very young... and I would DATY, I would feel like I had a sore throat... for a day or so.... now, it just feels goood..... hummmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!  why is that?!

I am not sure if I understood your assumption that I am a liar. Where did that come from??

Here is my assumption - you just wanted to post the link to your web site (wink!).

Think of it from her perspective.  Some guys are pigs.  Have no respect for themselves of others. May be dirty, sweaty or smell. If it was part of her review, she may feel more obligated, or have to deal with negotiation, etc.  Best for you to take the compliment.  I have found if you are clean and polite, many will accept the gift.

...although you had a wonderful time, do you find it necessary to publish that all over?  Aren't you happy with the good time?  Or do you see approval and acceptance by others?  Is that you priority?

Just let it go and appreciate your great time.....