What is the best way to have a prostate orgasm? Using a vibrating toy, repeated thrusting with a dildo, certain shapes of toys? I have always wanted to experience one of these, but have never been able to quite do it.
And mostly, it depends on what YOU find pleasurable. I have long since stopped telling anyone that there is a 'best' way, because as soon as I do, someone else comes along and says that it ain't so, and that another method is much better.
Some precautions: if you choose a dildo, make sure it's a smaller type suited for anal stim. And use plenty of lube; you don't want to have microfissures up the butt.
The easiest thing to insert is clearly a finger...perhaps the one of a partner, for simplicity's sake, although you can do it to yourself if you have reasonably long figers.
The person inserts his/her finger into your anus and massages the prostate gland VERY GENTLY. You can find your prostate a few inches above the anus. As you know, the prostate has been described as "walnut-sized," so it's not that hard to find. The person is then supposed to massage and squeeze the prostate gland sort of "downward."
Some people use various devices like the "Aneros." To me, they look just like butt plugs, so that may also work.
I have tried certain toys in the past using conditioner as my lube, but it seems like certain materials of toys, like what the better dildo's are made out of, still grab and pull more than they slide.
Is conditioner good enough, or is there a better kind of lube out there?
You should definitely NOT use hair conditioner [?!] in your anus. Please use WATERBASED LUBRICANT, such as KY, Astroglide or any other waterbased lube on the market.
You don't want any residue from the lubricant once the playing's over, hence waterbased rather than esters and oils present in hair products.
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