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herbtcat 6 Reviews 144 reads
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Make sure you insist on meeting in the lobby or bar, and then make sure you diplomatically approach sugar terms before you go up to the room.  You don't want any $1,000 demands surprising you, or threats of her pimp jumping out of the closet.  
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Use questions like "Have you had arrangements before? Can you tell me what you liked about your last one?" I would suggest you be careful of any direct quid pro quo offer in the bar.  

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ShockBoogie1484 reads

Doing my daily search, for the 3rd or 4th time today, and run upon a new profile in the 'Featured Search' section.  Beautiful and smokin' hot body, but pictures clearly airbrushed.  Profile states "I'm here for a short time.  Looking for FWB's".  

So I drop a line and she responds immediately with "I'm in town for work convention, looking for FWB's.  Leaving Monday".  Short back and forth.  She gave me her number and we set up a meeting at her hotel tomorrow via text.  No terms discussed.

Pro?  Semi-pro? Hot civilian truly traveling for work looking for a hook-up (who has a convention on a holiday weekend?)?

My last text to her was "I'll meet you in the lobby for a drink".  She did not respond.

What would you do?

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herbtcat145 reads

Make sure you insist on meeting in the lobby or bar, and then make sure you diplomatically approach sugar terms before you go up to the room.  You don't want any $1,000 demands surprising you, or threats of her pimp jumping out of the closet.  
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Use questions like "Have you had arrangements before? Can you tell me what you liked about your last one?" I would suggest you be careful of any direct quid pro quo offer in the bar.  

Life is good.
The Cat

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lester_prairie151 reads

I don't like wasting time on a coffee date only to get some outrageous asking price.  So I now always locked down the expected "gift" in early emails/texts.  In my earlier days I would go to the first public meeting without discussing financials.   But I found no real benefit to that.  

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hardknocks6175 reads

It's about what you have to give up to keep the date, right?  If it's a 25 mile drive with nasty inner-city parking, then don't go without really good information.  But since she's really hot, and seems ready to go, then if you're 3 miles away and can park easily, an explanatory coffee is probably a great way to spend a Saturday afternoon.  But as was said earlier, have your spidey senses on full alert.  TGTBT is a concern.

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GaGambler131 reads

I completely agree with your assessment, and it's something I keep in mind with EVERY first date with a POT SB. What's the downside if the date is a bust?  If she's local, and I have no other plans I don't mind wasting an hour or so of my time and the price of a drink or two, besides I have several girls in my "rotation" and if a first date is a bust I can always call someone else on short notice so I don't end up going home with my dick in my hand.

 

OTOH, if she's an hour away, and I don't have a back up plan, that is a completely different situation.

 

Personally, I would wait to for HER to make the next move, I "might" ask her for a selfie before agreeing to meet her as well considering the TGTBT factor.

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hardknocks6187 reads

Did you meet in the lobby for a drink?

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ShockBoogie134 reads

She was about 8 miles away.  Garage parking near her hotel would have been about $20-30.

My spidey senses were indeed on extra high.  As I mentioned, she did not respond to my text the evening before our scheduled rendezvous regarding meeting for a drink at the hotel bar.  So on the next AM, texted again asking a few general questions:
-How much time should I allocate for our meeting?
-For this unique short term arrangement, what type of sugar would you she like?
-If we have a great time, would she consider meeting again on the following day?

No respond via text.  As the appointed time approached, I wrote "It appears something may have changed on your end.  No problem.  Let me know if you have time tomorrow".  No reply and profile down or she blocked me.

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GaGambler153 reads

Most of that 15 minutes wasted talking to us about this. lol

 
I think you handled this "just right" I wouldn't have walked across the street to meet her if she hadn't sent me a confirmation text.  

 
There are a thousand different reasons you didn't hear back from her, none of them are really worth dwelling on. That's the beauty about simply moving on when you know things sound "wonky". In a few days you won't even remember this, if OTOH you had driven to her hotel, paid to park and then wasting an hour or more waiting for her to actually show up, THAT you'd remember for a long fucking time. lol

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herbtcat152 reads

Agree with Gaga (no surprise there), you can call this loss a "win" since you did not invest significant time or resources in a no-show M&G.
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In addition, you have educated me in the process (hey, we are ALL in learning mode here, no matter how much BDC time we are getting...). I love the 1st question: "How much time should I allocate for our meeting?" This is an excellent question as it should elicit useful intel on her goals and intent in meeting (or not meeting) and it does so in totally non-creepy or "hooker/trick" manner.  
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I am totally going to rip that off and use it. Thank you!  
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The Cat

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lester_prairie151 reads

One reason (I speculate) for ghosting after initial contact and potential planning is that she got a better offer.  

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ShockBoogie145 reads

Well the drop dead gorgeous mystery traveller was back last weekend, but with a new profile name.  Message was the same...in town for the weekend for work and looking to meet someone.

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GaGambler206 reads

Some of them I have seen with literally dozens of new names and profiles over the last several years.

 

I guess that answers the question about whether or not guys fall for this type of thing. I doubt women would be pulling the same scam for years if no guys were biting.

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