I've been reading some posts on this board and the prospect of jumping into the sugar bowl seems pretty tempting.  I've been hobbying for a long time and it's great, but it seems like all of you are having great experiences in with SB's.  Unfortunately, I have a number of 'non-negotiables' which may preclude me from partaking.  Would appreciate your thoughts so that I don't waste a bunch of time when I'm destined for failure:

1. Anonymity is key.  My professional life is one where I could never have the person know my real name or occupation.  It's not that I'm super important or uber-wealthy, but without getting into detail, the SB can't know my name.  
2. Related to reason #1, I need to minimize meetings in public.  I'm fine to meet for coffee once (that's a risk I'd have to take) but after that, it would be strictly meeting in more intimate settings.  Likely, it would have to be at her location, though I could probably figure out a way to pay the SB to get a hotel room.

Because if these challenges, it probably makes sense to just stick with providers.  But before I give up on the sugar bowl completely, I thought I'd solicit some opinions.  

My name is fake, my phone is a google number, I can pay cash for a hotel or go to their place.  Go get em kid, you can do it!  

Just be honest about your needs with your POT SB's and I am sure you can find a few that can accommodate you.  

 
One word of caution though. You are almost certainly going to want to go PPM with your SB's make sure you get off of SA's private messaging system before discussing money. You are bound to attract mainly pro's and semi pro's and SA's "private" messaging system is anything but "private. You don't want to get kicked off the site before you even get started not to mention if they kick you off they don't even refund the money for your unused VIP days.

It's my belief that the more you are willing to spend, the more eager they are to accommodate your whims.

Looks like this is definitely possible! I went onto the two main websites for introductions and it appears one has to pay by credit card.  Can I just buy a pre paid Amex card with cash and use that to sign up?

Again, thanks for your patience as this is new to me.  Anonymous hobbying is much easier, but the SB world seems very enticing!