Re: I am very .......................... curious.

Dear romeogolf,

I don't see the need to overcomplicate things. There's nothing unusual about wanting to perform cunnilingus (or anilingus for that matter) on a body part that emits an odor. That's normal. Unfortunately we live in a very sanitized modern society where people have phobias about smells. But just think back to a time before there were standard bathrooms in most American homes, and when there were no anti-perspirants or readily available fragrances to apply - OF COURSE people had body odors. And they do now, if they don't obsessively wash away any form of exsudate.

The existence of a VNO (vomeronasal organ) in humans is still debated, but I certainly believe that we are genetically equipped to respond to pheromones. So I don't see anything weird about what you want to do at all. As for wanting to give oral sex more than ever - so what? Preferences in sexual activity change with age and experience; I bet your repertoire has expanded significantly from when you were in your late teens or early 20s and could think of little else but intromissive penile-vaginal (or penile-anal) sex.

To paraphrase Sigmund Freud, "sometimes a cigar is only a cigar" - I wouldn't worry about it.

Enjoy munching the odoriferous kind,
The Love Goddess

spend it how you want.
skb

We're in the same age group, and I think for those of use whose sexual experience started in the mid-1960's to early 1970's, these are challenging times.

For people like us, today's "safe sex" barely qualifies as sex at all.  It's sanitized, full of rules, barriers and physical and psychological separation between partners.  I'm not saying you shouldn't use condoms, I'm just saying that we now find ourselves in a sexual environment that is completely devoid of all the things we used to enjoy about sex in the first place.  For the most part, I've stopped having vaginal sex with providers because it's just a painful reminder of everything that sex should be, but today is not.

Natural sex IS about an exchange of bodily fluids, it is about getting sweaty and messy together, it is about all the sensations of two bodies colliding in the most enjoyable ways.  Its intense and primal- or at least it was.

Now fast forward to the 1990's and the age of AIDS and "safe sex."  Sex became as sterile as a doctor's office and the total opposite of everything I described above.  There was now a barrier between you and every part of your partner's body.  And if you could find a willing partner, and they were under the age of 35, they'd probably been scared shitless by the media, teachers and everyone else about having sex at all.  At the peak of the hysteria about 15 years ago, people were acting like heterosexual, vaginal sex was as dangerous as playing in traffic.  Fortunately, we've moved on from that, but the effects linger on.

I still remember the first time I heard of a covered blow job- I thought it was a joke.  The first time I heard of a dental dam, I knew it was a joke.  Then I found out it wasn't a joke and quickly learned there was nothing funny, or fun, about having sex in the age of safe sex.  (I told you this wasn't going to be PC).

Now, getting back to your question.  I think your love of oral sex is probably similar to mine- it's one of the only ways remaining that you can totally immerse yourself in your partner's body.  Burying your face between your partner's legs is a very intense and sensual experience.  The smells, feel and taste are the only things that resemble sex as we knew it when we were younger.  

Similarly, anal stimulation and anal sex are very intense experiences and let you connect with your partner on a very primal level.  I've questioned why I like these things more now than in the past, and for me, it's about trying to recapture the experience and intimacy of two bodies being directly connected both physically and emotionally.

I feel sorry for today's younger generation because they will never experience the true joy of sex the way we did until they've entered into a monogamous relationship, or gotten married.  I've pretty much given up having vaginal sex with a condom because it does nothing except make me angry.  I'd personally rather stay home, save the money and avoid the traffic than put myself through that frustration.

But of course, I still want to enjoy the experience of being with a woman sexually, so oral and anal (always use a condom) have become more attractive because they are so much more immersive, intense and primal.  These activities can still tap into what sex used to feel like when we first discovered it.

I love having a face full of my partner's juices on me after oral.  I love seeing her devour my cock when she gives me head, and I find the exploration of her most intimate areas (anus) to be a good surrogate for what it used to be like to explore the wonders of her vagina.  So times change and I've been forced to change with them.  I feel like a lot has been lost, but you can't bring back the past.  Perhaps you're reacting to the same changes I described, and are looking for activities that bring some excitement back to sex.

I don't think you want to be humiliated, I think you just want to remember what it felt like to be alive.

Great Post G2, but I have first hand knowledge!

Mr. Romeo,

I have seen you professionally a few times. Your performance is among the best I have ever experienced in my 20 years of being a provider. Each time was different, you are very gentle, considerate, and a very very skilled lover.

I can honestly tell you being an excellent lover takes a whole lot more than keeping a chubby, and pounding the female you are in bed with. It takes skills that are only gained via years of practice, and a very strong sense of read and react.

You are a prime example of why I do not entertain very many gentleman...as you know I am extremely low volume. Each time I have received an appointment request from you, I have been thrilled to respond and entertain you. If I sense NO sensuality from a gentleman in our communication prior to a session, I will, have, and will continue to cancel the session. There is no need in my even showing up to be pounded for a few hours. Pounding is fun, and it certainly has its place.....but it does not encompass any signature of a refined, informed, skilled, and sexually talented bed mate. (its a pussy not a hole in the street fit for a jack hammer)

I thank you for daring to think outside the box, and being different.

You know who this is............