Back in 2013 I had very good experience on SA and found two SB’s that worked out well. One was in college, the other early 30’s, both very nice, intelligent and  attractive. I also had several options I passed on but the girls at the time were serious, quick to respond and eagerly looking for “mutual” arrangement.

After long hiatus off boards, I got back into looking using Seeking and Secret Benefits. I am in mid-size city with several colleges and in past there was never shortage of girls looking and be serious.

However, I noticed that there are far fewer girls, they mostly want to “talk”, or be paid for nothing. The girls on site now don’t seem to understand what “arrangement” a SD wants even when being direct.  Plus out-of-shape girls seem to be norm.

Seeking was a joke so I went inactive and SB is barely better, hopefully it gets better with Life getting back to normal.

Am I the only one experiencing this?

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I have been having similar experiences on my end in the DC area. Hence my return back to this place...  

 
Since I discovered SA in 2015, I have used straight  up seeing providers only sporadically, and only when I was either traveling to Florida or Las Vegas - two prominent places I used to go all the time before the pandemic hit.  

 
Up until 2019 I was having good experiences with SBs, but at this present time the whole experience has gone downhill to a point where the return I am getting is very hard to justify in comparison to time I am spending..

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are the norm ... everywhere.

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Need 50% (33-66%) more dough to access the hotties

Eg, in my area Houston, you now need a minimum of $400 to access an experienced fit hottie in her 20s who understands the SB arrangement. But usually a super hottie SB is  $500+ now. Used to be $300 could ensure something good. Go lower than $400 and u get an amateur who’s either unsure she’s ready to be a SB or she’s a chubby curvy.

SA was good until 2018/2019. After that, most girls want $ just to M&G and the rate has gone up a lot. I just joined SB. Most of the girls on that site are from downright ugly to plain-looking. There are only a few I would consider going BCD with. I think I will stick with my K-girls for the time being. I like variety but only at a reasonable price.

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You'd think that if supply goes up, prices would go down but that certainly hasn't been the case with sugar.

Quality is down, lots of “curvy” girls.  They are afraid to be honest and say full on overweight.  They think you should pay for a conversation. They want more cash.  It’s true here too.  The end result is not as favourable as before.

Definitely a clear downswing in my area.

My apologies for being repetitive in this post -- I posted on another thread about an hour ago and hadn't seen this thread yet.  

My SA area board is incredibly full of GPS, scammers, photo-only, platonic and just plain BSC women.  Even the "sane and clear-eyed" ones are communication deficient.

But the worm will turn....maybe....

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