I mentioned a while back that one of my newest SB's lives in the downtown area of Los Angeles (we call it DTLA).  She's a lower-thirties, petite (4'11") babe from South Africa.  She moved to the US and spent several years in New York before relocating to LA. If you've spent any time in NY city, you know that most people don't use or even own a car. It's generally impractical, and bus, train, taxi's and ride shares, not to mention walking, are the way to get around.  Now that she's in LA she's trying to do the same and has been discovering just how big LA is and how shitty our public transportation system is as well.  

 
But when we first agreed to a M&G, she decided to take a bus to the Valley to see me. When we negotiated our arrangement, she agreed to a moderate allowance (based on my suggested needs-analysis of her current income), and she agreed to take the bus or Metro system to see me for dates, while I would pay for an Uber to get her home afterwards.  That Uber ride generally costs me between $75-$100 including tip, which is not insignificant but still keeps the total date expense somewhat reasonable.  

 
But... yeah there's always a "but" and not just the beautiful ass she likes me to spank and lick.  But that train and bus system is not only much slower than a car, it's also very unpredictable on actual arrival times.  She has been as much as 3 hours late due to missed or canceled busses, holiday/weekend schedules and traffic. She's always good at keeping me informed. But this problem has resulted in ruining my plans to take her to live music events, and other time-sensitive activities, which she tells me she truly enjoys attending with me.  

 
So now I must make the unilateral decision to get her an Uber to and from my home for our dates, which will bring the per-date Uber expense to around $200. This is exactly the situation that made me decide not to date an SB that lives more than a 20-minute drive from my home.  If she had required a higher allowance, I would need to bail. Fortunately, the all-in costs are still within my budget, but I will need to significantly reduce non-date spend on things like gifts or "just because" cash surprises. In addition, I need to make sure I don't unconsciously change the way I think of her or treat her. After all, she's hot, demure, skilled, and she willing to let me put parts of my body into parts of her body on a regular basis.  Plus, my cats seem to like her.  

 
The moral of this story?  Arrangements are never perfect. But that doesn't mean they are not worth the effort and investment, as long as you make all decisions using both heads responsibly.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Or you could teach her to drive.  

Bite the bullet and pick her up.  

This is how I do it with no car girls.  I arrange dates around rush hour.  She agrees extra time and sex is appropriate for my drive time.  Same allowance.