Apart from my current one, I had one other SB who liked being taken out. She was a blast so we always got people's attention in a good way. My current SB is often out with me, restaurants, concerts, art museums and we travel too. We have never come across anyone either one of us knew but if we did I'd introduce her as a friend, no big deal. In fact I believe she is proud to be out with me. Once in a while she will notice others staring at us and comment about it in a very positive way. One time we were at a Missing Persons concert and some other ladies commented to her that she "had a good thing going." She didn't know if they meant the great seats we had or that she had snagged me. We laughed a lot about that.
If you don't have an SO, taking your SB to a swanky NYE Party of 30-40 people and no kids should be the poster child for sugar dates. Add a follow up brunch the next morning, and you're set to make some amazing memories and start the new year with properly dirty sheets as well.
So why will I be going to the party alone? She has to work on NYE. I really can't fault her. The gig will pay 3x her normal rate due to the time (6 pm to 1 am) and the holiday. That amounts to more than double her allowance and we will still be meeting for that late brunch on the 1st.
It's a reminder of the balance we walk in sugar relationships - experiences vs cash. I have taken her to events and locations she just cannot afford or even find on her own. But she still needs to pay her bills, just like everybody else, including us.
This raises the interesting issue of whether you can go public with your SB(s). I thought about inviting my SB to a NYE event but decided against it. It would mean meeting non-sugar friends and having to deal with their questions. So it could be awkward for her, for me and the others. Another option would be a quiet night in with her... Sometimes I think of her as my 'girlfriend' but when you stop and think about it, it's different. So maybe a bit selfish to go out myself (although I think she'll have something with her friends) .. it boils down to deciding on my own priorities, which is why we sugar I guess.
If you are out in public with your SB there's always a chance that you will be Outed. So you better decide in advance what you will do or say if you run into friends of yours, or hers. And discuss it with her beforehand. I'm fortunate because while I don't broadcast my Sugar Dating status to the world, I'd have zero negative consequences if I'm outed. My awesome wife encourages me to enjoy life to the fullest, including being intimate with others. So I've been out in public many times with a sugar baby, and sometimes with my wife along as well! A few times I've run into friends and simply introduced my SB as "This is my friend, (Her Name)." It's never been a problem.
If my friends or family have an issue with my GF being almost 30 years younger than me.... They can fuck off.
I'm happy. I've dated women 20 years older than me and been happy.
Currently, we are regulars at a restaurant/bar in San Diego. Our go to place for dinner and drinks. If anyone has an issue with the obvious age difference and the kissing and attention she gives me in public. Too bad.
Understood that you don't give a shit but how about your SBs? As noted by Scramouche, his SB may feel uncomfortable, considering the age difference, being at a part with his non-sugaring friends.
I've only ever had one longer term arrangement that was purely BCD. And I'm pretty sure she was just low volume escorting. She made it very clear she was not interested in dating. Just wanted to hang for a few hours, have some sex and that be it. We both had clean tests so I tried it out for a while. It ended abruptly but that shouldn't surprise anyone.
As for the rest. I make it clear. I consider this dating. We go out and have a good time as well as great sex. If she's not comfortable in public with an older guy than sugaring is not for her. My current GF loves it. She even laughs that I'm older than her mom. Why does she love it? Because I give her attention. Appreciate the attention she gives me. And I don't want to just get stoned and fuck all day long like most guys her age. She's been asked about it before while we were out. And that's her answer.
I get asked why I'm dating someone less than half my age. I keep it simple. The women my age I've dated also want a guy who can 'afford' them. Except now they expect me to pay their mortgage and for their kids to go to college
Apart from my current one, I had one other SB who liked being taken out. She was a blast so we always got people's attention in a good way. My current SB is often out with me, restaurants, concerts, art museums and we travel too. We have never come across anyone either one of us knew but if we did I'd introduce her as a friend, no big deal. In fact I believe she is proud to be out with me. Once in a while she will notice others staring at us and comment about it in a very positive way. One time we were at a Missing Persons concert and some other ladies commented to her that she "had a good thing going." She didn't know if they meant the great seats we had or that she had snagged me. We laughed a lot about that.
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