Had 2 I spoke to a long time ago and never met reach out and start talking again.

1.  GPS.  Was then.  Is now.  Wants 2k a date.  Doesn't drive and can't host.
2. Was GPS, now not so much.  Early 30s Asian.  A little thick.  We talked on video and planned a date for today.  Was going to be lunch followed by fun.  No call, no date.  Not sure I'm ghosted or she's just flakey.

I guess we don't really think about it much, as we generally consider ourselves to be top-of-list choices for a POT.  

 
But that's not always true.  There is always some swinging dick out there with more money and/or more tolerance for bullshit & GPS than we have.  

 
A few months back I started getting Snap Chat messages ("snaps") from a POT I'd connected with 2 years ago.  She wanted to meet.  Honestly, I had all but forgotten about her, and I could not even remember if we had ever actually gone BCD. I even searched my calendar app for her and could only find an entry for a M&G.  I continued to chat on Snap Chat for a few days (because "never burn bridges" is still the right thing to do) and tried to get some idea of what she was looking for now. All I got was sexy pics and vague replies. At one point, she video called me through Snap at around 11:30 pm as I was getting into bed. She was naked and wanted to show me her tits while she played with them.  I think she was drunk. LOL  

 
I suggested she come to my place right away and we could hook up.  While we were talking about meeting - and this just puts the whole thing into perspective - she fell asleep!  I went back to bed and chalked it up to her inebriation.  Never heard back from her.  

 
So yes, SB's have their own rotations, A-Lists, B-Lists, etc.  Looks like both of these old POT's didn't have good A-List options at the time  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I had the most amazing blast from the past contact me yesterday.  We had chatted and exchanged very sexy texts a year ago.  But her unpredictable work schedule made it impossible for her to plan in advance.  Fast forward to yesterday.  She contacted me and said she was in my town presently and would love to have me come to her hotel for a playdate.  I already had plans for the evening, but I changed them!  She's a 30 something stunning blonde, one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen, let alone been with.  I went to her hotel at the appointed hour and she greeted me warmly, and looked exactly like her pics!  She excused herself to take a quick shower and emerged wearing just a towel and a smile.  Game on. The towel was very quickly on the floor and I had this gorgeous creature in my arms. Perfect tits, smooth shaved pussy, long blonde hair, and an eager attitude.  She had mentioned she loved daty, so that's where she had her first 2 Os.  The main event was equally rewarding, and she was open to everything I tried.  She told me later that she bosses people around all day at work, so for playtime she just likes the man to take charge and direct the activities.  We wore each other out, and parted promising to repeat again one day soon.  Never burn bridges!  You never know who might be texting you tomorrow asking for that playdate you gave up on a long time ago!

"...The towel was very quickly on the floor..."

 
I don't think SD's get enough credit for our unintended contributions to society, specifically, the world of fashion.  

 
As we continue to make the obvious and significant contributions to the local economy by adding cash into the wallets of those who want to spend more, we also help evolve the fashion trends for every SB we meet.  

 
You may ask "How so, Cat?" Well, we have added a new approach for judging a woman's attire... by looking at it while it's on the ground.    

 
"My! What a good-looking towel you have... on the ground."  
"My! What a good-looking black cocktail dress you have... on the ground."
"My! What a sexy set of lingerie you have... on the ground."  

 
I have no doubt that as we continue to appreciate our SB's attire on the ground, they will include that consideration when they go shopping for new dating attire. "Hmm... looks good on the hangar. But I'll need to try it on in the dressing room and then see how it looks on the ground."  This could be a whole new IG or TikTok trend called #OnTheGround. :p  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I like my SB to wear slutty and revealing outfits when they come over for visits, however, since I usually provide an Uber ride they often prove to be a bit inappropriate, especially if the driver is male.  So, I have them wear coverups, but you'd be surprised as to how  difficult it is to find nice cute ones: beach coverups just look so out of place and shawls or similar are too hot during the Summer months.

As a consequence, I have all the SB scouring womens stores looking for light, stylish and easy to strip-away (onto the ground) outfits.  So definitely an unintended benefit for stores in my area.