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I'm sorry you got robbed. And I'm sorry to tell you that CashApp most likely won't be refunding you anything.  Once you authorized the payment, they consider it your problem. They won't take responsibility for your poor judgement.  It might have been different if they forced you to pay (by threatening with a weapon), but since you authorized the payment, it will stick.  You can file a police report - but even then it's not likely you will ever see your money again.   And filing means you will have to explain to an officer everything you were doing and why. And IF the police investigate, they will surely look at Seeking as an escort site, and a ROB site as well.    

 
The last line of your post is the most relevant thought:  "Many lessons learned here."

 
I'd say you just completed a Master Class in ROB strategy and tactics:  
1. No surprise guests - at a M&G, or for a date - ever.  Just say "not what we agreed to" and leave.
2. M&G's should only be set up at low-cost locations, and outside meal periods. So no M&G's at fancy restaurants. No M&G's at expensive lounges, clubs, spa's, etc.  I always suggest a M&G at a Starbucks or similar (Jamba Juice, Peet's or Coffee Bean, etc.) and always after 1:00 pm and before 5:00 pm.  That aces her out of lunch and dinner UNLESS you want to extend the M&G after you get a good read on her.  
3. No electronic payments for the 1st date.  Cash is king.  Yes, there is a risk of a ROB stealing the cash, but that risk is capped by the amount of cash you have.  As you saw, a digital payment can be manipulated if she get's her hands on your phone, or in your case, she takes advantage of a disability. Once you've had a few BCDs with her, you can try other forms like CashApp or Zelle.  
4. NEVER-NEVER-NEVER-NEVER-NEVER-NEVER pay in advance! If pressed, show her the cash but keep it. If she still presses and you have no other red flags, you MIGHT be ok giving her up to half. But as soon as you put cash in her hand (or her purse) you will never see it again.  So again, be willing to walk or kick her out if needed. There is a lot more pussy on Seeking.  Really - a lot!  
5. if you are going to host the BCD - and I always do - secure your home from sticky fingers.  Hide valuables like car/house keys, wallet, extra cash, watches, and weapons if you have any, etc. well before she arrives. I put her allowance in an envelope in a small plastic mail basket on my wall near the front door. She won't see it until I retrieve it  
at the end of our date.  
6. Your dick is a shitty tool for risk evaluation. Do not trust your dick. 'Nuff said.  

 
Now I'm going to let you off the "BIG STUPID IDIOT" hook.   Getting ripped off happens. It happens to almost all of us. It's happened to me.  You are not alone.  And thank you for having the balls to post your story.  Others will learn from your experience.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Mdulce771104 reads

So I was supposed to meet a pot for an MNG she suggested a upscale dinner place but due to conversations I thought it would be fine, first red flag. She showed up with her friend/roommate which I thought was for safety or, in my naïve wishful thinking, a potential threesome. After they ordered almost everything expensive on the menu which I really wasn’t too upset about given that they seemed pretty hot (I am blind BTW) they suggested that the three of us go have fun back at my place. we negotiated a ppm of 500 each, which I thought was reasonable given the situation. We went in Pot ones car, and should’ve seen another red flag when she preferred not to park in my garage. When we got to my place they asked for money upfront, which i knew was a red flag, but the original Pot convinced me that she had gotten screwed over before by somebody who refused to pay. Anyhow the second pot actually put more than the agreed-upon amount in cash app and, due to the idiotic nature of the app would not let me change it before it was done. She said she would refund me the difference. I knew that that would be unlikely but went along and didn’t make a big stink about it. when I tried to move in for a kiss I got a head turn, this should’ve been the biggest red flag. They said let’s go upstairs and left their coats on the banister. I noticed that one of the coats was extremely heavy so when we got upstairs I excuse myself for a moment to make sure that they didn’t take an iPad or something and next thing I knew they ran out the door. I am doing my best to see if I can recover anything back from cash app. Does anybody know whether that’s fruitful?

Many lessons learned here,

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herbtcat54 reads

I'm sorry you got robbed. And I'm sorry to tell you that CashApp most likely won't be refunding you anything.  Once you authorized the payment, they consider it your problem. They won't take responsibility for your poor judgement.  It might have been different if they forced you to pay (by threatening with a weapon), but since you authorized the payment, it will stick.  You can file a police report - but even then it's not likely you will ever see your money again.   And filing means you will have to explain to an officer everything you were doing and why. And IF the police investigate, they will surely look at Seeking as an escort site, and a ROB site as well.    

 
The last line of your post is the most relevant thought:  "Many lessons learned here."

 
I'd say you just completed a Master Class in ROB strategy and tactics:  
1. No surprise guests - at a M&G, or for a date - ever.  Just say "not what we agreed to" and leave.
2. M&G's should only be set up at low-cost locations, and outside meal periods. So no M&G's at fancy restaurants. No M&G's at expensive lounges, clubs, spa's, etc.  I always suggest a M&G at a Starbucks or similar (Jamba Juice, Peet's or Coffee Bean, etc.) and always after 1:00 pm and before 5:00 pm.  That aces her out of lunch and dinner UNLESS you want to extend the M&G after you get a good read on her.  
3. No electronic payments for the 1st date.  Cash is king.  Yes, there is a risk of a ROB stealing the cash, but that risk is capped by the amount of cash you have.  As you saw, a digital payment can be manipulated if she get's her hands on your phone, or in your case, she takes advantage of a disability. Once you've had a few BCDs with her, you can try other forms like CashApp or Zelle.  
4. NEVER-NEVER-NEVER-NEVER-NEVER-NEVER pay in advance! If pressed, show her the cash but keep it. If she still presses and you have no other red flags, you MIGHT be ok giving her up to half. But as soon as you put cash in her hand (or her purse) you will never see it again.  So again, be willing to walk or kick her out if needed. There is a lot more pussy on Seeking.  Really - a lot!  
5. if you are going to host the BCD - and I always do - secure your home from sticky fingers.  Hide valuables like car/house keys, wallet, extra cash, watches, and weapons if you have any, etc. well before she arrives. I put her allowance in an envelope in a small plastic mail basket on my wall near the front door. She won't see it until I retrieve it  
at the end of our date.  
6. Your dick is a shitty tool for risk evaluation. Do not trust your dick. 'Nuff said.  

 
Now I'm going to let you off the "BIG STUPID IDIOT" hook.   Getting ripped off happens. It happens to almost all of us. It's happened to me.  You are not alone.  And thank you for having the balls to post your story.  Others will learn from your experience.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

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Mdulce7756 reads

Thanks Cat, I really deserve the idiot penalty box though. I knew the entire time it was too good to be true, and I knew all of these rules but just didn’t follow them. But nothing teaches like experience. I got sloppy because of several fantastic dates that I had previously with no problems though I did not pay in advance I did use electronic payment. It’s a pain to get cash.

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Mdulce7788 reads

If you’re in the DC area message me and I will give you details.

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sweetman62 reads

It was unexpected because I'd already had one fantastic date BCD with this lovely young Latina. The sex was amazing and she seemed truly enthusiastic.  We agreed to a second date in the near future and both of us would bring some of our favorite sex toys.  She showed up for date #2 right on time and dressed very sexy.  When she said she needed to get something she had left in the car, I thought nothing of it until she fired up the engine and drove away.  I had made the mistake of leaving her $$ out in plain sight and she had pocketed it when my back was turned.  Girl gone, $$ gone.  And there were no red flags, I was totally surprised!  She just saw an opportunity and took it. So be careful out there, and yes, it does happen to us all.  Needless to say, I don't leave $$ out in plain sight any more.

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fitnessbuff159 reads

The same thing happened to me. Had dated this Latina 5’9” SB slender for over one year. Had her $$$ in an unmarked envelope on the chest of drawers. Says she had to meet her friend outside and would be right back. She drive off.

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AnotherDonJohn56 reads

Guess I can’t quite feel your pain because after the 1st date I’ve figured out the girl’s first and last name, her social media, and in most cases her home address.  

Add to that my homes are 24Hr video surveilled and they know I have guns stashed all over joint.  

Now I’ve had girls play search for their gifts in plain sight but that’s different. I hope if I heard some nonsensical statement like “I have to meet my friend outside” it would raise alarm bells right away (wait, in front of my house? Why?), that I’d be on to the money dash but who knows?

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sweetman53 reads

I'm not as savvy about internet research and not at all aware of how you find out the personal info on your dates.  Sometimes I simply ask for their IDs, and try to find them on Facebook, but that's about it.  As for your home security, I guess I gave the impression I was dating her at home.  But in fact we met both times in my RV in a neutral meeting place.  Her car was parked right next to the RV, she hopped out to "get the sex toys she left in the car" and drove off!

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AnotherDonJohn54 reads

Ah i see. I guess my question then is why go halfway: either u know who they are and how to find them again (so you can trust them a certain degree, at least as much as a girlfriend) or you don’t know anything about them (so treat them like we treat our hooker strangers we meet in hotels).

I guess RV sex is fun?

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sweetman61 reads

RV sex is great fun!  I've had so much sex with so many cute honeys in that RV, it's just been amazing! And the girls seem to like it, it's a bit different from what other guys offer, and it's very cute and cozy inside.  Hey, it works for me!

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WTFsGoingOnAroundHere56 reads

More power to ya bro, for having a gift of gab game strong enough to get a chick to bang you in an RV. If I were a chick selling my ass on SA the last thing I would do is jump in an RV with some stranger. That just sounds sketchy as hell. lol No offense as you've said - it's working for you. Hell I could meet a chick at a bar or any other normal place two adults would hook up, and if she asked me to jump in her RV I'd run like hell and assume that if I got in the RV, I'd never be heard from again. lol

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sweetman57 reads

You're right, of course. Most girls these days are fascinated by horror movies and watching true crime programs. It's exciting, but it messes with their heads, and as you allude, nobody wants to end up on Dateline, right? In most cases my RV dates were preceded by one coffee date at which we both felt a great attraction/connection. So she felt  comfortable meeting in the RV.  I have some protocols which I use to forestall their natural fears.  One of them is to offer my ID so they know I'm not hiding behind a false identity.  Otoh, there's a lot of confident, empowered, sexually active young women out there these days who are perfectly happy to forego the initial coffee date and go straight to BCD on the first meet.  I've had a dozen of them meet me in the RV and wind up in bed with no preliminary m&g.  Maybe I do have a gift of gab, lol, but it does work for me!

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