I found this nice looking young woman on SA, after initial messages we shared private pictures with each other and finally exchanged the private numbers for texting offline. She is a single Mom who is looking for someone long term but somehow ended up on SA cause some best friend of hers found a great man thru SA. I did emphasize that I was on SA for just a NSA friends with benefits kinda thing. She however continued texting and seems to have fallen in love by just the exchange of pictures and texts. We have not met yet and she has not asked for any allowance yet. She was texting from a text app but then started using a Google Voice number saying that second one is her personal number. I am using Sideline app myself so we could both still be bots for argument sake. Sometimes, she dumps big paragraphs of text that seem like copied pasted, and sometimes it's a repeat of what she has said before. Things like what she likes and what she likes to do etc. I am confused if she is a spammer who is going to ask for financial help soon with funds needed to sent via paypal or she is genuinely longing for a relationship and has actually fallen in love just based of our communication.
I am posting here so see how much fun can everyone have with my situation and if someone has experienced something similar which was a spam."most" of the time any woman claiming some "deep connection" or "love" that you haven't met is running some kind of scam, or actually looking for "real" relationship to suck the life out of you. lol
OTOH, I have on occasion met someone on SA where the texts and flirts have gone a lot further than usual before actually meeting and some of those have worked out rather well. I am actually in the middle of one of those right now. I've only been talking/texting her for a few days now, we haven't met mainly because of my schedule, not hers, but there seems to be a certain "something" between us that makes me think I might end up with a GF instead of an SB. Just like you, I won't know until I meet her, so "Go meet her" lol
GaGa, I would like to just end the suspense and find out which one it is, scam or sucker! Her schedule is messed up as she works a few weeks on the gigs and then takes an entire week off, so while she was planning to meet up for public lunch to end the digital streak of messages, but then suggested to wait till her week off. We do plan to do Skype/FaceTime which should probably put the suspense to rest. But so far, I am still hanging.
That type of messaging has all the classic signs of a scammer. It will continue to progress without ever a detail about where or when you should meet - until she thinks she has locked you down as a lonely guy looking for anyone who will love him back. Then she will start to set the hook: She will say she is dying to finally meet, but gosh darnit, she just needs a little cash for the plane ticket, or to help pay her rent so she's not on the street, or her car repair so she can drive to meet you. If you could just pay her the x00 or x000 she needs then you two can finally be together and start your new life! Halleluiah!!
Here's a tip to try to flush her out of the bushes. Go back through her messages and look for some researchable item like a location, and event she went to or some other fairly unique aspect of her life. Research it on Google, Wiki, etc. and gather facts that someone who wasn't actually there is not likely to know.
Then casually mention it - only mention it incorrectly. Example: Oh wow, Sepulveda Blvd near West LA. I used to love to go to Tito's Tacos on Sepulveda and National for Taco Tuesdays! Great 3 for 1 specials.
(it's actually on Washington)
See if she corrects you or if she agrees....
I am definitely waiting for that hook to arrive already! Though she knows the area and has mentioned stuff around so she is not a bot operating from another country. But I can still ask some specific questions to see if that checks out.
I'm actually partial to Johnnie's next door
I guess if you are really partial to pastrami and aren't in New York often -- but Tito's stands out even by LA standards.