I can't say how many are real on either Seeking or Secret Benefits, but I have scored behind closed door sessions with many from either site. So there are real girls. My closing rate is terrible because I state right out that I am in it for the sex. But there are many who are in it for the money, so we have a meeting of minds (and naughty bits.)
1. The 20-something SB POT who likes cars. I’m not talking abt the “car trouble” stories. I mean the ones where Half of the time she sounds like a regular POT, other half she knows and talks cars like a dude... knows what a Shelby gt350 is vs a regular mustangs I guess I answer my question by not having any of them convert to SB after two months of hunting.
2. Anyone on the Alt SB site lol.. I know girls are on there. One who has been to my home is a civvie who didn’t know what the site was abt and we now have a platonic relationship while she’s engaged. After two months of hunting, I’ve found that the rest have been complete wastes of time messaging with. At best they want to know what the allowance could be. So they’re either women or men paid by the site to get renewal subscriptions or they’re TERers or the like with fake Alt SB profiles. No one beside the civvie has made it even to meet and greets. I’ve stopped renewing so there are 60 unread messages from maybe 5 profiles I like.
There's no reason why an expressed interest in something that may not be traditionally associated with females can't be legit, assuming there no other yellow or red flags. I've seen profiles where the POT seems to be adding content like this hoping it will encourage POT SD's to think they will have common interests. Easy enough to slide in a test text sometime to see how she responds. Like telling her your family had a fastback when you were a kid and see if she knows what that is... The fact that you haven't been able to convert her and get an arrangement may be more about other factors,
As to the "alt" site. There are a few who post here that say they have had success, perhaps limited, getting to BCD with POT there. But as I recall, they all confirm that the ratio of legit vs fake/scam profiles is even more skewed against them than SA. And I think I remember that many say the POT they found on SB or SDFM, etc., was usually also on SA. I have never seen anyone here post actual numbers comparing these sites to SA. Generally, they report (and when I last tried these my experience was) that you get a shit-ton of messages, but only a small percent will reply to your reply, and far too many of those end up scammers who get paid to get you to sign up for a bogus verification service. For me, I also rarely found a profile for a POT who was actually local to me (say within a 30 minute drive). Los Angeles is a BIG area. And a POT who says she's in LA could be 20 or more miles from me, which equates to a minimum one hour drive in LA traffic.
So: would you rather fish in the ocean or the desert?
SA is (or at least was) more plentiful than Secret Benefits. I haven't been on SA for two years, though. I remain on SB because you pay per contact, not per month. So I leave a few coins in the purse and can see the activity levels. I may start up again around June. Laying low for now for family reasons.
I can't say how many are real on either Seeking or Secret Benefits, but I have scored behind closed door sessions with many from either site. So there are real girls. My closing rate is terrible because I state right out that I am in it for the sex. But there are many who are in it for the money, so we have a meeting of minds (and naughty bits.)
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