The Erotic Highway

Nose rings
herbtcat 6 Reviews 54 reads
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I agree that a nose ring in sugaring is probably not a red flag by itself, especially is she is a stripper.  But strippers bring other yellow flags to the party, as they may be looking for higher allowances equal to or over what they charge in the club for extras if they provide extras.  Or they may think SD's are just simps with a bigger wallet who takes more showers than the "losers" she meets at work.  

 
But in over 40 years of patronizing strip clubs across dozens of countries, I have never met an experienced stripper that would not provide at least an over the clothes HJ.  And that scales all the way up to BBFSCIP, in or out of the club.  

 
On the other hand, stripper SB's almost universally know how to perform better than SB's who were not sex-workers in the past.  

 
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The Cat

Another YouTube vid by the "Silver Bachelor."   He publishes content for older guys in the modern dating pool but says he has "sugared" in the past.  

 
This time he presents 20 Red Flags found in women's (civilian) dating profiles.  They don't all line up with how I evaluate POT SB profiles (I.e.: #20 is probably something we want to see).  But most are generally applicable to our world.  

 
It's a 10-minue vid, and I suggest you invest that time watching it. What do you think of his red flags?  

 
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The Cat

I agree that most are generally applicable.  He could have added several more.  I disagree with number 20 as well.  I also disagree with his red flag of septum piercings. A lot of young women, especially strippers, have them.  I don’t see them as being particularly feminist or any other kind of red flag.  

I agree that a nose ring in sugaring is probably not a red flag by itself, especially is she is a stripper.  But strippers bring other yellow flags to the party, as they may be looking for higher allowances equal to or over what they charge in the club for extras if they provide extras.  Or they may think SD's are just simps with a bigger wallet who takes more showers than the "losers" she meets at work.  

 
But in over 40 years of patronizing strip clubs across dozens of countries, I have never met an experienced stripper that would not provide at least an over the clothes HJ.  And that scales all the way up to BBFSCIP, in or out of the club.  

 
On the other hand, stripper SB's almost universally know how to perform better than SB's who were not sex-workers in the past.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I only agree wholeheartedly with 6 of his 20 red flags.  I disagree with 7.  And I'm neutral about 7 because I don't see the issues as pros or cons, but are worth further exploration.

The no gray hair?  Sure, for a sugar baby.  If she's 50, I'm not surprised or turned off at all.

Nose rings, generally for older women it's a no but some have alternate careers, ie tattoo artists, etc.

No Trump supporters.  I think this goes both ways.  No one overly political.  Leads to problems.

The overly feminists?  He's making a lot of assumptions.  Better to just be clear that you like being the man in the relationship and let her respond.

Pics stuff is all good.  No kids, group pics, only one pic, or only wearing sunglasses.  Glamor pics are probably a scam.  Overly sexualized usually means SB or escort.  

Agree with your analysis netnoy. The no kids thing in sugar land is different. I've found better sex with mom SBs. If they have a dedicated person to care for the kids (e.g. mom, aunt) then it is pretty perfect. If they have to rely on babysitters, look forward to no shows.  

As for feminism it's as netnoy says. Is she ok with you driving things. My #1 SB is a total feminist but she loves, loves, loves me taking the lead, being in charge, taking her. Women are complicated. What can I say.

To be clear, it's no kids in your pics.  Not no kids period.  I've dated women with kids before.  Not a big deal.  I just don't like public photos of them in the dating profile, it's weird.  Unless they are adults.

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