I was generally speaking.

It showed up on the Newbie Board and looked like it must have first been posted elsewhere because it clearly did not belong there.  Now it's here.  What gives?

I have always been in love with the word flaccid. I'm weird that way. But I understand what you saying you want you lady to get you at a standing attention so you can fully enjoy. Super understandable.

having intercourse with a half erect penis is considered the ideal.  These self same books also recommend against ejaculation. (I find this interesting but certainly not my bag.)

Perhaps this gal is an adherent of this philosophy?

Or, another plausible explanation, if I am to believe more than a few gals, is that she believes this flaccid state is the norm, likely to be the best she's going to get, and in the interest of time and avoiding losing even that half-hearted erection she better get busy and make hay while the sun shines, so to speak.

Tell us, have you communicated your feelings to the fair Colleens?  If so, what has been their response?

It really turns me on when a half flaccid penis goes in and after a few pumps I can feel it getting harder inside me. It feels sooo good  to m

re:flaccid penis

Maybe they thought JohnyCameAldready.

your concerns to the provider....that's the best thing to do!

2 reasons.  Inexperience ones who don't know what they are doing.  Or those Rushing Providers who tell you 'ok I think I got you hard enough, get it in .. we only have so much time left .. hurry up and get it in.

Some simple talking in the beginning before clothes come off would make for a better visit. You could tell her that youre seeking foreplay, touching, and that it will get fully aroused. I also find a 69 can make a girl want to lavish you longer as the pleasure is mutual. A disposable latex cockring can be bought (about $5) and seems to help some of my clients. Hope Im not too forward.