A few days ago I had my second BCD date with a lovely 24yo local SB. Our first BCD was good, and this one was better. We got together about an hour after showtime, but she stayed in touch and let me know she was delayed.  We drank some coffee, had some good conversation and got caught up on each other's current events, got naked, and got laid.  She boosted my ego telling me how good I was and how well I knew my way around a woman's body! Pretty typical, unremarkable sugar bowl date, right?  The thing is, our first BCD was over 3 years ago!  We had planned on a timely repeat, but life intervened. She got busy, and we lost touch, it just never happened, and we drifted out of each other's orbits.  So I was delighted to see her post a profile on SA again, and immediately re-established contact. She seemed delighted to hear from me, even though her new stated age range has 45 as her upper age limit.  And that number is a ship that sailed for me a loooong time ago!   The point I want to stress is to never burn bridges and this is a perfect example of why.  I could have been pissed at her for disappearing back then.  Instead, I remained the gentleman in my messages, always saying I'd be happy to see her again if she wanted.  I've had other SBs from my past reappear, but 3 years between dates is a new record.  With any luck my next date with her will be sooner than 3 years away.