I haven’t been on here much.   I have. Been busy though.  I found a 24 yo tiny spinner who just loves to fuck and I get the eye rolling in the back of here head, squirting orgasms out of her.  It’s awesome.  
I have secretly wanted to find a girl who I’ve worked with, checked that box.  I have secretly wanted a friends daughter, checked that box.  I’ve also wanted a girl from the local porn makers.  Checked that one too.  But , there is a new girl from the local porn makers who lives in my mountain town, she just popped up on SA. made contact with her, I really want this one. I mentioned I had seen her on the internet doing some porn.  She has nixed meeting bc she doesn’t want to be with a fan.  I told her I’m not a fan I just wanted to have her.  She won’t budge.  Ideas?

I just got back from visiting a city 130 miles away from me to do a BCD M&G with a Cam-Girl turned A-List porn star that just returned to SA after a 2+ year break.  

 
I had been viewer years ago during her early web cam career and when I found out she was back on SA, I messaged her there and mentioned that I knew of her from "another online venue" and wanted to connect. I also sent her a vague message through the cam site (she's still active there) and said I was "seeking an opportunity to interact with her after some changes in my life."  Fortunately, when she read both messages she was able to connect the dots and she replied through Seeking in the affirmative. We moved to text and worked out the details for me to drive to her location and get a hotel room. Note this is NOT my usual MO. In fact it's exactly opposite of my "only local" and "I host" policy. But she is on my porn star bucket list and I was hoping that if we connected I'd get a significant discount on her UTR escort rates through an agency. I was correct.  

 
I drove to her city Tuesday afternoon for an evening dinner and dessert date.  We spent a while chatting, catching up since we had last "talked" through the cam site, and then went to diner and back to the room for fun. During our dinner chat, she mentioned that she was nervous I would turn out to be a "creepy fan" of her porn. She went on to tell me that she has avoided private "fan" meets because these guys tend to be way too fixated on the porn part of her life and she's not comfortable "dating" them. Note that she has filmed "fan fuck" videos. But these require the guy to pay a shitload of money ($3k+), and they must sign a model release, agree to let her sell the vid, and agree to have her camera operator (aka bouncer) in the room.  

 
She was glad to find me as a "regular" guy/normal Daddy type, I was comfortable hanging and talking to her, didn't obsess with her porn work and was not at all "creepy."    We went back to my hotel room and had an excellent BCD session. I brought fresh tests with me  (from the same lab she uses) and swapped results before getting down.  Everything I wanted was available, and she was as enthusiastic and skilled as she looks in her videos. A true PSE.  

 
Will I repeat, making this a (semi-)regular arrangement?  I'm not sure. The allowance was about 3x my average and the drive there and back effectively makes a 4-hour date a 2-day time suck (no pun intended).  But she told me her allowance ask was not a "hard number" (again, no pun intended) if we set up a recurring arrangement.  I'd be most  interested if she would agree to see me whenever she comes to LA for work (she doesn't have a car) and could hold a 3-5 hour block of time open for us. But she told me if I was the only reason she would come to my area I'd need to pay for her rental car, plus a premium allowance amount to cover her travel time.  I'll think about which way I want to go with this, as she appears to be open to negotiation. I'm leaning on setting up a quarterly meet in her city/or whenever she's in town at perhaps the same rate I usually offer other porn stars I see a few times a year...  

 
Lesson learned about Sugar Dating porn stars:  Don't present as a "big fan." Instead, if asked, let her know you recognize her or tell her you're cool with her work, but don't focus on it.  Be interested in her whole person, be the cool older guy she can learn from and who spoils her because she's a worthy person, not because she's a professional whore.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I have.  I stopped reaching back to her.  I’ve had some who at first blocked the idea, but after time thru seem open.  We shall see if she is worthy of my cock later.  

Cat, how I wish you could name names. Nevertheless, I respect your commitment to discretion.

I appreciate your respect.  

There is a strong consensus here that we do not disclose the names or profile links of any SB's, with the exception  of ROB's and the occasional specific, sometimes searchable reference to a profile that is noteworthy in it's obvious GPS, or total BSC text. That includes not naming or linking to porn star SB's (PSSB?).  

 
However, if any of us encounter a porn star as an escort,  we can, and she should expect us to, write a review on TER. Again, we adhere to a concept that sugar dating is DATING, and hookers are HOOKERS. We do not review SB's as though they are hookers, even if they ARE a hooker we happen to be dating. I'll even suggest that if you manage to sugar-date a porn star she will NOT want you to write a review and may cut off not only the arrangement, but sensitive parts of your anatomy if you ask her about it.  

 
So it's fair game to look at the the Porn Star board for deets on porn stars who escort. And it's ok to look at porn star reviews, as that is part of the mission of TER.   Having said that, you can look at any of my hooker reviews which includes at least one porn star, although not the PS from this post.  But I generally do not write hooker reviews here, so you won't find many, though I have been hobbying for about  40 years (yes, my 1st time was at the tender age of 19).

 
There may be a need for a separate post on how to search SA for likely porn stars who want to sugar date... if I get sufficient feedback I can write about it.  

 
In my total sugar experience, I have dated at least 7 porn stars, if you include 2 web cam models who went on to make porn later. Add to that about 5 M&G's with porn stars that never converted and I suppose I've been a lucky Daddy indeed.  Just keep in mind, that porn stars will demand a premium allowance, though generally less than their escort rates (if any). As a group, I think the sex tends to be consistently good or better (some were A LOT better), while the drama that comes from dating a SB is about the same as non-porn star women.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

You can certainly see it from the porn angle but even more broadly then that, a majority of the ladies in the bowl do want discretion and there are a number that don’t want their bowl life and their personal/business lives to cross. Generally, when you have someone like that and you cross the line, your generally not able to turn it around. There are certainly exceptions to the rule but most of the time it’s best if you move on.  I’ll always leave a very polite message back in case she ever has a change of heart.