I  posted about my 1st SB experience....one good date, then ghosted for a week, then popped up to set a date, which she NCNS'd on...
Now she popped up again, and wanted to see me this weekend.  Ok, sure...if you're gonna show up ( inside voice)
But....then she immediately starts asking for more! One date....then a flake, and now she wants more. The pussy was good, bit strong arming me for more when she hasn't even shown to be dependable? And her increase would take the bargain out of it, and put her in line with some of the pro's I see. Sorry baby....heres the boot.

I’m only about 2 weeks into this SB scene and hardly an expert BUT after sifting through all the scammers, teasers, semi-pros, pros, I’ve found a couple nuggets.
I’ve gained some weight  this last week from all the lunches I bought to meet these ladies.  It’s work but worth the effort in my opinion.  
BTW, I’ve found that 90% of the ladies I’ve met for lunch when asked prefer sushi.  It seems to be the go to meal in my area.

If you want to increase your "BCD on the first date" ratio, try taking them out for dinner instead of lunch.  

 
I guess I am up to a hundred or more "first dates" with POT SBs and my ratio of dinner or evening drink dates leading to BCD on that very same first date has got to be 50% or more while my conversion rate on lunch dates is probably below the "Mendoza line" lol (For those of you who are not baseball fans Mario Mendoza rarely hit over .200 and was "honored" with the threshold of ineptitude where batting is concerned to be named after him)

 
Thinking back on my last several lunch "first dates" with POT SB's I honestly can't remember the last one that led to BCD as a extension of the date. About the only time you will get laid on the first date that is a lunch date is with a pro or semi pro and those girls normally will just meet you at your place or a hotel and don't need (or even want) to be fed at all. lol

I still have a home life so I have to limit my evening meets to sure things.  Although yesterday I had an early dinner (4 PM) with a Russian lady that I would have loved to go straight BCD, instead we planned for an evening next week.
Being single and playing the sugar game would be much easier for sure.

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If only! I don't know if it's actually easier, but there are different challenges to be overcome.  
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Keep on working it.  And thanks for the updates.  
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Life is good.  
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The Cat

I haven't kept track of the number of lunch dates that led nowhere for comparison with those that led to an arrangement later on vs those that went directly to BCD.  But I have a similar stat to report, and I think I do ok with lunches.  I've had many dates this year, and a total of 15 new SBs so far.  Of those 15, 6 went directly from first lunch to first fuck. That's a batting average of .400, not too shabby.  And they were all either a casual lunch or just coffee.  Actually, I never take a date to dinner unless she's already an established SB and we've just had a fine romp in bed.   Maybe it's because I hate to drink alcohol and/or eat a big meal before sex.  IDK, maybe I'm just too cheap.  Maybe I should try more fist dates as dinner dates, but I seem to do ok with mid day meetups for lunch or coffee.  Works for me!

Well the Russian lady tried to double the arrangement before tonight’s meet so I declined.
I contacted a 21 yo I met for lunch last week and she came by tonight and rocked my world for 3 hours, left with a full bottle of wine and said she would send me a pic of she and her girlfriend after they drank it.  Still waiting on the pic but I don’t care.  This is like mining for gold, sometimes a rock sometimes a nugget.

Came back at our original agreement, so I'm still having fun with that, and she's been rock solid dependable the last few occasions. I'm still shopping for more, but I still haven't taken the bite in to SA as a full member. Secret Benefits still seems to be a waste. Mostly hogs n dogs. And what's up with the 60 yr old women looking for daddies? I'm not paying to fuck some old lady!