Definition: BNB = Bang and Bail. These are SB's who just want to get you to nut then leave asap with their allowance.  

 
I have 2 BNB's in my current line-up.  They get 50%-70% less allowance than my #1 and #2 SB's, and they seem happy with it since they always come back for more.  I don't make any special schedule arrangements for them, and I never worry if I have to cancel last minute.  I am certain they are seeing other, probably several other, SD's (or for one, Johns), but I don't bother asking because I don't care.  

 
This week, I saw my #1 SB last Saturday for the 1st time since I returned from my one-month trip to the Philippines (I've been back for 2 weeks, but I decided to be prudent and get full STI test results from 2 different labs before I went BCD with anyone). On Wednesday, my Asian porn star was in town, and she was looking for some "Naughty/Nice Secretary Role Play" sex. After 4 hours of BCD fun, we brought in Door Dash and after dinner she left to drive back to her home city.  Today, I just wanted a quickie before I meet my buds later this evening.  

 
My Asian Spinner MILF SB showed up on schedule and within 10 minutes of entering my home I was entering her. A vigorous 20-minutes later I made sure there would be no stains on my new blanket by placing all the "artifacts" of our tryst where she can safely transport them off premises.  

 
On her request, I made her a cup of coffee and we chatted for a few while she drank.  Her gift in hand, she said goodbye and was on the road 45 minutes after arrival.  

 
Certainly not the same as a 4–6-hour date with a sweet, sexy college girl who makes me think she adores me and is always looking to develop her inner-sex-freak to the next level.   But a satisfying quickie nonetheless!  

 
This is not meant to be a humble brag.... ok, actually it totally is. LOL  

 
But the observation is still worthy of sharing and discussion.  

 
Do any of you have one or more BNBs lined up? Do you have ONLY BNB's?  Are you experiences similar to mine?  

 
Please share, my brothers. Share.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I haven't found any BNB's at half the usual rate myself, at least not yet. I'll just have to live vicariously through Herb until I do. [nyuk nyuk nyuk]

I haven't posted in awhile but thought I'd offer my input.

I've met 5 or 6 women off of SA and except for one, were all in this category. All of them were very attractive, in their late 20's, 30's or 40's and of difference races.

My guess they were probably pros or UTR pros looking for reliable regulars. But I had a good time, they all followed-up but probably just needed money to pay bills etc. I saw some a few times but it was pretty much the same. They didn't want dinner, didn't care about hotel accommodations or anything like that, they were friendly, and let it be known what they were there for...one would send me photos occasionally.

Nothing long term ever came of any of those meet ups as they disappeared after a couple of months or so.

That's impressive, herbcat! I don't have the time, energy or funds to pursue that much pussy. I have one amazing SB and the sex is about as good as ever so I'm not pursuing others at the moment. She doesn't travel with me so when I'm away I look for reasonably priced pros since it seems daunting to do the kind of vetting you need for SBs on the road.

It's not my preference, it just has worked out that way currently.  I'm seeing 3 lovely young latinas, all of whom fit Herb's definition of BNB sugar babies.  Or as I like to say, they all are interested in only 2 things:  sex and money.  Or perhaps, getting laid and getting paid.  In the past I've had much more well rounded arrangements with girls who enjoyed going out to lunch, long conversations, motorcycle rides, and other fun activities beyond the bedroom.  I've had arrangements that were close to bf/gf lovers.  And I miss that aspect of sugaring, which is why I continue to seek one of those rare gems who wants a meaningful connection on all levels: mental, emotional and sexual as well.

That’s really all I want.  Yes I talk with my SB’s and we discuss what’s going on in our life outside of our relationship.  They host our time together, we get to it and always have passionate fun. After we have a convo for 20-30 mins and then I’m gone.  I never thought of them as a BNB but since you mentioned it, I guess that’s what they are.  Works for us.  

Herb has such class and dignity. I refer to them as fuck 'n ducks. Actually, not my preference but as of late that is seemingly what it has become.

I don't care for BNB's. They don't provide the emotional connection I look for... and they aren't as skilled in bed as a professional provider.  The only advantage they'd have over a provider might be cost.