arranged a date with a regional independent who had very nice picture and mostly good reviews. When I arrived, she was everything I had hoped for, beautiful, bright, friendly and very sexy. We talked and talked and talked as she had a smoke. The more she toked, the more erratic she became. When we got down to business, she was bouncing off the walls and the music was to the point of distraction and really ruined it for me. I was disappointed and slightly stoned when I left.

I would really like to see her again, maybe book for a longer time. Despite our first data, I believe she has the potential to be an ATF if straight and in a more sensual setting.

Comments? Advice?

You're disappointed and you want to see her again?  I really don't understand why?  Your story sounds like you had a horrible time with her.  Why would you want to see her again?

She sounds, from your description of your meeting, like a real stoner, and not someone I would want to see.  If you want to get stoned with a provider, see her again.  Otherwise, run away like hell!  IMHO, she is gonna be real trouble.

Please repost, or PM me, why you want to see again.  I really don't understand why.

Dear captain40206,

My advice is very straightforward and simple: Tell her exactly what you told us in your last paragraph. Just change the pronouns, that's all. Yes, you should be very blunt about it. It is entirely appropriate. You are the client and you have a right to express your wishes and your opinions.

Now she has the right to refuse service for whatever reason. So...if she is the smoking, toking kind, then maybe you two just don't make music. At least not the kind you like.

Aah, why do I hear that Steve Miller song in my head? Could it be 'the pompatus of love?'

Good song, but in real life...
the Love Goddess

and quickly - if she is smokin dope while you are there, you need to get out of Dodge fast... no questions, no explanations are required.
It is apparent she has no respect for herself or you. Say goodbye.

This kind of conduct will only get both of you in serious trouble sooner or later.

Frankly, if she's getting really high on the first session it's probably the only way she could get through the session.  Yes, she likely hates what she does that much.  So, you're not likely to see the same beautiful, bright, friendly and sexy woman if you insist she stay on earth.  IMO, this isn't hopeful at all.  

She isn't a girl friend, so don't be inclined to think of her as a potential ATF.  That's too co-dependent of you, and you don't want to start like that.  Consider fatal flaw and move on, and perhaps write a review of your own mentioning her behavior.