My latest is a great looking early 30s young mommy getting a very reasonable allowance.  After about a month of meetings at my house,  during a drinking evening she confesses to doing porn. Shows me the videos, web sites and twitter feed of her fans. She also shows me her clean test results. I was clearly taken aback but grateful that she was honest about it as I would have had no clue. What would you guys do?

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She showed you her "clean test results" Was this an invitation to, or reassurance about having BBFS?

 
You are on TER, so you are admittedly a whore monger, why were you taken aback that the SB who accepts your money to fuck you has also accepted money to fuck on camera? Most guys in your position would be happy to have an ex porn star in there bed on a regular basis.

Because been there done that with porn stars and escorts and have had enough of the frantic mechanical gymnastics. I wanted a sweet innocent to corrupt at my own pace!

Yes and BBFS was on the menu but now I will not partake

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I would be disturbed. I have had two instances of finding my SB postings on backpage when I took her on a business trip. I gave her money for sightseeing and photography projects. Sometimes a girl will not tell you the truth, my preference is not to know.

I humbly suggest your are missing the big picture here.  

You wanted someone who would be sweet, innocent, and corruptible with you and you did.  

She USED to do porn, so she understands the dynamic of the pay for play lifestyle. So she won't be feeling guilty or shamed about fucking you for cash and fun to ruin the mood or add drama.  

She was willing to go BBFS with clean tests because she understands the responsibility that requires. Namely, if she does fuck someone else, she will ensure either he has clean tests or he keeps it wrapped. So BBFS with her is probably (I know this will invite criticism!) safer than BBFS with a true neophyte to the sugar bowl (who may go raw with the first ass hole she meets at a bar, club or party).  

Finally, as to mechanical gymnastics, you didn't seem to have a problem with her sexual prowess before you found out, so that's really your bias fucking with your head(s).  

IMHO, you had a contender for the Unicorn Hall of Fame, and you just kicked her out of the stable...

SDs/Johns want a girl with mad BCD skills, but they also want these girls to be virginal ie "low volume" it's like they expect these women to have learned their dick sucking skills from a book rather than from having sucked a thousand different dicks. lol

 
Don't believe me, just look at any other TER board, there is post after post, thread after thread about guys searching for "low volume" hookers and hookers advertising that they only see one or two guys in an entire week, yet they drive a brand new Mercedes living strictly on their hooker income, yeah right. lol

 
SHE sounds just fucking perfect, HE OTOH, sounds a bit fucked up. sorry, I calls them as I sees them.

And you are complaining because she has done porn before? Are you looking for a wife? Just enjoy it while it lasts.

Where do you live?  If you put this girl on waivers, I'm ready to pick her up and maker her a starter on my team.  Let's make a deal

Something got lost in the shuffle of pile-ons !  I never used the past tense.  She is doing porn now, and started after we began our thing, though she must have been laying the groundwork earlier. Anyway the visual of 12 dicks in her every orifice is not a good one for me

Link? JK!

I've inadvertently had two encounters with women who were also doing porn. It was years ago, but the two worlds mix, with lots of crossover.

With one little honey, THE CONDOM BROKE, and she is very relaxed about it, saying "Don't worry, when I was doing porn in LA I was getting tested all the time." Totally nonchalant, while I was freaking. Well, nothing happened, but never, ever assume you really know anything about these girls...

She sounds perfect, please share her SA name if you ever feel like that she is not the SB you want to see anymore. Many SDs here myself included will gladly take over

So let's put this in perspective...  

She is having sex almost exclusively with a group of people that has the LOWEST incidence of STD's in general population and you are worried.  

She is having sex almost exclusively with a group that gets regular weekly or bi-weekly tests when the "average" guy/girl around may only bet getting tested once or twice a year, if ever.  

She is having sex almost exclusively with a group that does not agree to have sex with anyone else UNLESS that have a recent (i.e.:  1 to 7 days old) STD test.

Having been with retired and current porn stars both as escorts and SB's, I can tell you that there is no group that makes me feel more protected from STD's.  And that includes an 18-year old who claims to be a virgin. The porn star will have documented, verifiable proof, as will I.  The 18 year old may be (and probably is) untested and lying. I have more than once gently probed (no pun intended) the occasional 18 year old and found that their definition of "virgin" is pretty flexible and can mean "only given BJ's and HJ's" and also may mean only anal. Or even "just had sex one time with my HS boyfriend."   And they never have a recent test and they are never on birth control.  

If, at the bottom of all this, you just object to the idea of her embracing a dozen or so dicks a month, then think about that 23-year old college hottie SB who takes your sugar to pay for her weekend in Vegas with her hottie girlfriends and ends up going to the bathroom and taking 3 dicks (aka air tight) from the rappers, football players, and bartender/DJ's she meets in that $1500 bottle service booth at a high-end Vegas club.  Feel any safer now?

She's no longer on SA after she started with me . For the moment, hands off guys lol

Thanks Herb. I can sleep better now!  Seriously, you make a lot of sense.

I met a Korean girl about 10 years ago who worked at an AMP and we started dating shortly thereafter, about a month or so after we started dating she quit the AMP (yes dumb white people, girls can and do quit working at AMPs, they are NOT sex slaves) and went to work at one of the legal brothels in N Nevada. She would go out there for a couple of weeks at a time and then take a vacation for a couple of weeks. That's when we ditched the condom, those girls in Nevada get tested more often than lab rats, I never felt more safe fucking bareback in my life, a lot more so than even when I was married. lol

 
I completely agree with you about civvies. While you can't get pregnant by taking it up the ass bareback, you damn sure can get AIDS that way. Now fucking random hookers bareback is like playing Russian Roulette with five of the chambers loaded, but fucking a girl who gets tested several times a month is pretty reassuring to me.

Sympathy..ahaha

I saw a hot MILF type while traveling.  We got together last summer and had a good time.  We got together again this summer, and had an even better time.  About a month after my trip, I stumbled on a porno of her that led me to 2 others.  It looks as if she filmed them a few months after our first date.  All 3 videos show her with the same guy.  At this point, she doesn't know that I know.  I would consider seeing her again.  She's attractive, skilled, and openminded, plus very affordable.