Egads, the obsession some men have with ejaculatory volume, propulsion, frequency, etc., ask_chopper,

Now that concerns me so much more than if someone is a shooter or a dribbler. Yes, it has to do with indidvidual physiology but another demonstrable relationship exists between propulsion in ejaculation and AGE. By the time a man is in andropause, his ability to shoot out the same way an adolescent does, has significantly decreased.

Are there drugs that help "launch like Peter North?" Not to my knowledge. On the other hand, I can assure you that we women don't really feel any difference, particularly if there's a condom involved. And if there isn't - trust me, my cervix wouldn't know if something dribbled or shot at it from about 5 centimeters away. It's not like the propulsive force is so intense that it's going to bore a hole and leave a big crater.

Being a good kisser is much more important than being a good shooter,
The Love Goddess

to increase the volume of semen.

Goji berries and ginseng also seem to be having an overall positive effect on my abilities.

You are what you eat.

By the way, For comic effect, your headline should have said:  "Loaded question?"

I tried a quick search for this topic, please excuse me if it's already been discussed...

Does anybody know why some guys shoot their loads in streams and others dribble them out? It seems like most dudes spray, or am I wrong?

I don't know what determines it. I've heard some people talk about doing kegel exercises but that seems like baloney. It might be something about the physical makeup of the guy's organ. I've also wondered if there are drugs for dudes that help them launch like Peter North. It's something I wonder about enough to post here.

LG, let's forget about the shooter vs the dribbler vs the sprayer. My Q is related to the quality and the quantity of the contents. I read somewhere a post by a provider who claimed that she was so adept at telling about a client by just merely looking, examining and sometimes tasting the Gent's "seed" She was talking about a much "creamier" and whiter contents from healthier guys with healthy diets as opposed to grayish and water-like loads from guys who were particularly habitual or chain smokers. I have also read about guys who either supplement themselves or use a combination of certain fruits/vegetables (no red meat?) so that their load has a better taste? You opinion, insight and information would be most appreciated.

P.S. I often thought that the thickness of the load depended on how backed up the plumbing was (blush!)

You're right, I'm sorry to ask again. I had searched but wasn't satisfied about the specific discussion of "load delivery."

I do think my anatomy makeup might be different as I have always dribbled out since puberty and it's puzzled me. I do apologize for the infatuation with the subject but I appreciate your time and thoughtfulness immensely.

As for kissing, I don't have any questions about that, it is more important to women than any other foreplay... too bad it can't be enjoyed more in hobbying.

You're right I should have titled it, "loaded question" as I had a hard time thinking of the right subject line. lol!

doesn't how long you have abstained from sex play a role(say a day vs a week)? and how long you hold out during sex(ie: getting close to cumming and then pulling back, several times)?and your diet?  sometimes all i do i dribble out a little, sometimes it dribbles out a lot, sometimes i shoot a little shot maybe a foot away, and then sometimes(pretty recently with lots of pulling back and like 2 days of abstaining) i shot a pretty big load in doggie and hit that back of the girls head about 2 feet away. at least for me i never really know what my little guy is gonna do, sometimes i think it will shoot and i dribble out, and sometimes i think i am just gonna dribble out but end up shooting a thick load. i tells ya its got a mind of its own and we are never on the same page in that regard

thanks for the input A6. I feel sort of the same way. the only time I'll shoot anything is if I draw out the moment for hours pulling back several times. And I'm more likely to shoot when I'm using my hand after holding back for a few days. But it's never consistent.

There's no need for all the envy with seeing porn stars unload a loadful of sperm  or seeing ladies squirt.   Its their unique physiology, and not everyone has them.  But here's some things that may help:

Yes, eat a lot of nuts.
I've been trying some Testosterone gel (transdermal) and it seems to work (apply before sessions).
Try Twinlab's Tribulus Terrestris - also great
If you get a lot of sleep and relaxation, it also helps (melatonin).
Eat steak and meat - to keep testosterone up
Have you tried sleeping 10 hours before having playtime with a lady, that helps.
Excercise right - not too much.

Regarding the "Load Question" or as Mr. Fisher had suggested, "loaded question", TLG suggested that the search button be used as that topic had come up oodles of times on this board. I'll just have to learn to use the search feature a bit better, but if someone finds the accurate topic previously posted, please feel free to share.

FWIW LG if you are finishing with a BJ or a hand job some gals-my ATF being one of them-do get a kick out of the "explosive" effect. I do however agree with you that it's not worth obsessing about.  Sometimes I dribble, sometimes I shoot, sometimes it's a bit of both but the one thing I have learned is that I can't control it...or at least I don't care enough to try.

Regardless of how my load gets out and how far it goes my ATF and I always have a great time. I'd like to think it's because I'm a nice guy and a good kisser...

If what we men read in these pages,in the forums and especially in the reviews, may have some of us suffering unnecessary anxiety over the minutia of things?

I agree with you on this one!!!!    the art of foreplay and kissing is much more fun and interesting!!!   the orgasm is kinda the end point..........