I plan to visit soon a favorite SP for the 2nd time.Doing my homework in preparation,I was dismayed that other guys who have seen her are waxing poetic about her sexy lingerie, while all I saw on my first visit was nothing to brag about.I'm a connoisseur of fine lingerie and wonder if it would be proper to ask(by phone)if she could bring along a fine piece of lingerie when coming to visit me(it's too hot & humid to wear it).Not sure if the others requested it or not.Also, would it be proper to ask(assuming she has it)for a specific piece of lingerie(ie,chemise, camisole, corset...)?

Thanks

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People have fretted over the usual YMMV type extras like BBBJ, CIF, CIM, Greek and the like.

Lingerie would seem to be a pretty tame by comparison.

If she does take some umbrage at that, then it's time to hit the want ads again.

Why certainly, confucious sez,
Yes, it's most proper to ask if she's got chemises, camisoles, corsets, etc. It's part of her professional attire, isn't it? And if she doesn't, and you really like her...you just might have to splurge for something. I'm not one to recommend bringing gifts along with the donation as a matter of course, but in this case, if your taste runs toward something that's absent in her lingerie wardrobe and it's important to you, you might have to help things along. Just remember to take a cue from her. Not all women look good in more loose-fitting chemises or camisoles. Some ladies actually look more fetching, the tighter and smaller the garment. Also, some smaller cities may not offer top class luxury brands, e.g. La Perla, Aubade, Simone Perele, etc. If you end up purchasing for her, take careful note of sizes, as exchange policies may vary.

Have fun planning,
the Love Goddess

Hi:

I don't really own any lingerie because I didn't have anything to put into it and they don't make lingerie for a 32A at Victoria's Secret. No, I'm not kidding, I've asked over the years. I was adjusted up top recently (thankfully with very real looking/feeling results) and haven't bought any new bras or anything yet as I can't wear underwire bras or tops until October. Now, that said, I've always worn either what little I do have (I didn't feel sexy or even pretty in it) if it was requested and I would now as well. Problem with lingerie is that some women feel sexy and gorgeous in it, others of us don't. I didn't because I'm thin. I was a gymnast and I have a petite athletic body with long legs and a short torso. Long legs is great, but lingerie seems SO made for the Victoria's Secret models with their long, long legs and super long torsos.

I've had clients and boyfriends buy me Lingerie and ironically, I've liked every single purchase they've made. Strange, isn't it? You'd think it would be like a bra and panties..something the woman would know she could choose better than a man could for herself. I think my problem is that I've had it in my mind for so long that I dislike it, it's hard to wrap my mind around finally liking it on me.

So, this has zilch to do with your question, just addressing what LG said about it being part of a provider's wardrobe. I know many providers bring a huge bag full of it, I never have. Especially walking into a hotel. I wish to look just like every other wary business traveler when I visit a gent at a hotel. I wear appropriate attire no matter where I go but lugging a bag around seems so tiring and obvious. I've actually been thanked for not changing into something other than my birthday suit while in the restroom. I think it's a matter of your wishes.

Now, since you've seen this lady before, it would definitely be appropriate to mention it if you'd enjoy it. Maybe she feels like I do and doesn't have much but when it's requested, she wears it. With a first time encounter, it would ONLY be appropriate to ask AFTER your references have responded and stated you are a safe client. Before that occurs, if it's LE, Lingerie could be construed as evidence that the lady is enjoying more than time for her fee. This is also why I never answer my door in anything remotely slinky. Even with references, you just never know until the guy shows and leaves safely.

Just a little insight. Sorry for longevity.

Andi R.

Goddamn Andi...that was well put.

What was it I said that really struck you? You had a very strong response and I didn't really think I said anything too stellar. LOL Whatever it was, I love the response!!!

Lingerie-lessly yours,

Andi

PS I like my new, made-up word! Ha Maybe I'll rename myself, Webster! teehee

nice post - your openness is appreciated

tyvm

You write well period, but the last paragraph was air tight.

Was thinking to myself (this girl should write) then just saw thread where you mention you DO write in the ad industry (I'm in same biz, NYC, but on the vendor side for live action spot work).

Glad you dug the response...dig you too.

Andi, maybe the reason you feel so good in the lingerie your boyfriends or clients give you is because, consciously or unconsciously, you know THEY think you look beautiful in it (and I'm sure you do!)
I hope you learn to enjoy lingerie - it is so quintessentially feminine.

I also was impressed by the way you expressed yourself.  You do write extremely well, Andi; and you come across as a warm person.  My guess is that you make a good friend.