I have trouble getting it in all the way doing missionary sex. any advice will be helpful


-- Modified on 3/9/2007 12:55:34 PM

I'm joining it.

(Sorry, couldn't resist)

Have you thought about other positions, such as rear entry (doggy)?

I sometimes have the same problem, the penis tends to flop out during all the bouncing around, especially with larger women whom I enjoy.

I do notice that it stays in better if you lift the woman's legs up over your shoulder, but her leg muscles have to be in pretty good condition for that or leg cramps will soon ensue.

I tend to have the same problem with doggie. Missionary is fine with me.

Dear mdkiller 2003,

Several scenarios could exist here...I'm hunching for lack of more details. One reason could be that you are well endowed, she's exceptionally tight and tiny, and it feels that you're hitting the tip of her cervix. That would feel like a full stop and no, you wouldn't be able to get your entire penis in there, unless she was very, very relaxed. And even then, the some of the salami would stick out.

Another cause could be that this lady in particular is a little too "anteverted," with severely anteflexed uterus. This means the uterus is in the same position as "normal" and bends in the same direction (concave is anterior) but the bend is much pronounced. Or, she could also have a more vertical uterus, where the fundus (top of the uterus) points straight up. And of course, the "retroverted" where the uterus tips backwards, could be a problem. In all those cases, intercourse can pose an extra challenge, since it can be painful for the woman, and she'll simply "close up. That would feel like the "no entry" scenario. She could also suffer from vaginal vault prolapse, in which case the vagina would feel "shorter."

Of course she would need to visit with a gynecologist to establish the why's for this issue. If you just want to make things easier, stick a pillow under her hips, wrap her legs around your hips [Gloooria, the Doors version, anyone?] and plunge slowly. Don't forget to lubricate, especially if there is a condom involved.

Other than that, there would be zillions of modifications to straight missionary. You in missionary, she on her side...a kama sutra book might be an interesting tool to discover all the variations!

Thank you boys for helping out on this one,
the Love Goddess

Here is a link that explains it all:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=63137&boardID=6.

Sometimes you will get lucky and find a provider who can bend those legs back and take all your man hood. When you read the link look at the numbers.

Cowgril is find put I find there exter fees for that since the gril cant just lay there. I first gril frind would do cow to get it in there but I use to come out after a very short time of switching

Actually, having trouble getting it out would be a much larger problem.
But seriously, vaginal size, angle, degree of lubrication etc. can all impact sex in the missionary position.  Try foreplay, using a Tantric technique of slowly inserting your finger(s) into her vagina - MAKE SURE YOU ARE CLEAN and well groomed... object is it actually increase the size and receptiveness of the vagina to your penis - press slowly, evenly around the wall, while cupping her mons area and occasionally stimulating her clitoris - worse case scenerio you will bring her to a wonder climax.

eom

I'm having trouble picturing the geography here.

-- Modified on 3/11/2007 9:49:22 AM

Once you've got it in, try grinding instead of the long stroke.  Just pretend you're playing the Hula-Hoop!

QUOTE:
"Cowgril is find put I find there exter fees for that since the gril cant just lay there. I first gril frind would do cow to get it in there but I use to come out after a very short time of switching"

TRANSLATION:
Cow Girl position works well, but the ladies I see charge extra for that position as they do most of the work and can't just lie there (aside from translator: find better ladies that don't charge by position).

My first girlfriend would start in the Cow Girl position so that i could insert my penis fully, but I would slide out again soon after we changed the position to missionary.
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By my reading of this, it would seem that, though helpful in other situations, all of the advice about it being caused by the lady's vagina or uterus is not the issue here, as he seems to indicate he has had this issue with multiple women both in this "hobby" and in his dating life.
So mentions of uterus positioning, or the lady getting her legs over his shoulders, or preparing her with his fingers wouldn't perhaps help much.

Quick question though...why when he posed the query as he is having trouble getting in all the way with missionary position did the replies (with the notable exception of Mr Karmaexpress)  not suppose it could have something to do with his physiology or technique, but instead assumed it was the female partner and her physiology that was at issue?  

He never indicated it was once or one woman...but that was also assumed so to look to the female as the cause for his difficulties.

Sorry, had to ask. *smirk*

Sometimes more than just the tip of your penis, and her vagina, need stimulation.

You may be surprised at how much of a difference stimuating other areas makes, to both of you.