I have gotten many messages from SB's who wanted to meet last week and this week. One told me I have to get free this week. Another one wanted to meet twice before Christmas. I ended up meeting her once. It is obvious they all need shopping money for X'mas gifts. I already met three in the last 10 days so I think I am done for now. I need to save some money for X'mas shopping too. Did you guys receive a lot of messages lately also?

I'm actually exchanging messages with 6 POT SBs right now. They are all newbs though, and not sure if they can go through with it and make the leap into paid intimacy. So I don't know if any conversions will result. But they are certainly more active and in need of cash  this time of year.

If the objective is to bed some more SBs, I agree that tis the time. However since my goals are exactly diametrically opposite of, i.e, to spend more $ on myself and my own Family, I have decided to abstain as I am still running in stealth more as an unpaid member.

If you've been in (or were in) the Los Angeles area 10-12 years ago you might have been a fan of a radio host named Tom Leykis. His "schtick" was to get hot, young babes to bang you for free - and specifically not be in a traditional romantic relationship. The total antithesis of a SD.  

If you see me in a shopping mall during the entire month of December, call the police because the only way you'll find me there is at the point of a gun. lol

Yeah, I think I mentioned a few months ago that I was taking the holidays off for that very reason.  However, I got real lucky as I found the unicorn at the end of my subscription.  I got hit up for a xmas gift but it was not that expensive and given the dollars associated with our arrangement, it was worth every penny.

Fair enough.  Given that tomorrow's meet with my main SB will be BCD #5 of 9 to pay off the car loan (and so no additional cash expected), I don't mind dropping 100-200 on some gifts to make her happy.

And I'm very familiar with Tom Leykis and his manosphere themed shows. He also advocated to never answer one's phone as a high value and in demand kind of a man during the weekend.  

Got hit up by three new SB's this past weekend while I was out of town. Have been in communication with all three, but more extensively with 2 of them who look pretty hot in their private pics, which they volunteered without my asking! How often does that happen. Got set for a tentative meet for tomorrow with #1 when she wanted to know about my prior SB experiences. Gave the generic "we had a very successful arrangement......etc" Eventually got around to the allowance and wanted to know how much my last SB received. This may have been a mistake, but finally got around to giving her a figure, to which she said "and was there more for intimacy?" She was asking for 700 per meet and extra for an overnight. I politely informed her I was giving half that for overnights, and you can imagine the response. Wished her well and have a Merry Christmas. The second SB, trying to figure a time to coordinate schedule for initial meet. The third, don't have as much interest in. The way I see it, it's all good as long as both sides are in the spirit of giving.

as part of their service menu. SD/SB arrangements must have affected their business and am seeing them attempt to market themselves as SB's in addition to an escort. Most of us are probably too thrifty to go for the rates they put out there and we have gotten to appreciate having a SB that works or is busy in school and is ready to blow off some steam when our date nights happen

My SA membership expired in early Nov and decided to take a Sugar Break.  I'm really remote and not much in the way of good options close buy so been focusing on civies and providers when I get into town.

The P411 profile now includes Sugar Baby as a possible option in the list at the bottom of the page.