Had seen a lady twice. Some heavy petting occured. She then lets out that she had done FBSM but didnt like it. She revealed that she had advertised on BP but thought the clientele was not great.  I mentioned TER.????  Her immediate reaction was...oh god. You arent a hobbyist are you? I denied. But it sounds like she has had a few reviews here based on her comments. And she knows the lingo.  

My take is she loves sex. Wants it with men she likes. Figures she xan make some side money fucking but is picky.

END OF MESSAGE

I disagree. She would not take money without a connection. Maybe retired?

I just had what I believe to be a hooker. I messaged her on SA, 2 min she replies asking if I can do 300 for a few hours, to have best time of my life. She said she is doing it to get back at bf that cheated on her... I check her FB and she is still in a relationship...

I agree with your general premise, there's a "gray area" within P4P regarding Providers/SBs. But this woman has clearly run the entire gamut of P4P, from "Sensual Massage" to BP Hooking & now the sugar bowl.    
 I think she's more like a high end call girl.  She's highly selective with her client base, so she's using a sugar site to find potential clients, like you.  She must be quite beautiful--you've seen her twice & you're still thinking about her.  I'm reminded of the STARZ show, "The Girlfriend Experience".  Riley Keough goes on dinner dates with potential clients before taking them on as paying customers.  

 Regarding your girl:  my guess is she has a stable of a few clients who she really likes, & she's considering adding you to an exclusive list.  I met a girl like this last year, she was quite beautiful.  She was also quite forthcoming about the terms of our arrangement, down to details like how I'd dress whenever I'd see her.  There was something about her that made my blood run cold.  My brother, as long as you go into this arrangement with your eyes open, then no one here will criticize you for it.  --

 
  A hookup offer in two minutes...that's better than most girls on P411, lol.  --z

I agree with Z. Who cares what she calls herself? If you like her and the finances work for both of you go for it. If she wants you to pretend she's something she isn't go along with it and enjoy

I saw a provider on seeking arrangement that I wanted to see so I made contact on the Sugar side.  Sounded like it was something that could fill up extra time if they did not have any appointments because they would have more control over when the meeting will take place. She did say it was not as attractive because it was less or the same money for more time.  Sounds like it would only make sense for a provider that was not very busy. If they keep their dance card full I don't believe they would ever go there.  She was just testing the waters on the Sugar side and quickly took her profile down.

I saw a blog or something that a sugarbaby had written about the fact that they are not escorts.  Her point was she gets to pick the men she sees compared to escorts often not knowing what their client looks like until they open the door.  Also that they have a relationship between the two people that does not exist with escorts.  Also said sugar babies have control over who and when they see and how often.  You could argue that escorts have all of the same abilities.

Really at the end of the day each is paying for sex and it's just two different ways to go about it. I'm glad to use the sugarbaby world because it puts hot ladies available that probably would not cross that line into the escorting world.

I not only agree that she is a hooker, but I disagree that somehow she is a "high class" hooker at all.

I think rather than a "high class" hooker she is a cross between a "reluctant" hooker and simply a hooker in denial. My advice is to pander to her delusions that she is not really a hooker and emphasize the "connection" you two supposedly have and give her more platitudes and less money until she comes to grips with her chosen profession.

She came over today. 4 plus hours. Daty, bbbj, msog....gave about an hour long massage. Refused any money.

Boy, you are lucky !